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Beginner July 2011

feeling really fed up

girlofsummer26, 5 May, 2011 at 18:25 Posted on Planning 0 3

Just needed a space to rant about how fed up I am about wedding things today. All our "big stuff" (dress, church, hotel, honeymoon, rings, bm dresses, suits, cake etc) are sorted but our invitations still aren't sent. A family friend who works in graphics is doing them for us as a wedding gift but really really taking their time about it....sent some save the dates so not too worried as all the main people already know the details. The guest list is really stressing me out because I have opted to invite more family then freinds whereas H2B has chosen work mates over cousins etc, and his mom is starting to ask why certain ppl won't be invited. Wow, sorry to whinge so much!!!

I guess i'm just feeling like everything is getting on top of me, i'm not sleeping properly, hormonal into the bargain!!

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Latest activity by 1234ABC, 5 May, 2011 at 19:19
  • ajdown
    VIP September 2011
    ajdown ·
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    Invitations... definitely need to be sent soon, why are they taking so long?

    Who you invite... that's up to you and your partner, not his mother or anyone else. There is no law that says you have to invite distant family over people you actually care about!

    Weddings are far more stressful than anyone realises, and it always brings out the worst in family members time and time again, which you seem to be experiencing.

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  • K
    Beginner October 2011
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    I'd be stressed by that as well. I'm getting wed in Oct and I'm doing my invites this month, with RSVP date of August to give us 4 weeks to chase any non-reponders.

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  • (Claire)
    Beginner July 2011
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    I am actually really shocked that your invites are taking so long I sent mine 2weeks ago thinking that was cutting it fine and I dont get married until the end of July, they need to get their rear ends into gear and before you start being mowed down by your guests asking you when, what wear (which we had) Dont stress about your guest list providing the people who mean the most to you are their nothing else matters.

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  • 1234ABC
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    WSS. It's your day, your inviting who you want to be there. Not who anyone else wants to be there. I had to try and explain to my gran why i wasn't inviting one of my uncles and it nearly broke my heart. I'm still torn about whether or not to invite him (it's his wife i don't really care for, my uncle is sound!)

    I think i'll be going back to the guest list to see if i can work him in some how.

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