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First court hearing today ***UPDATE****

KB3, 23 February, 2009 at 10:07

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HE WON! I am so so so SO proud of him. MrKB has got FULL custody of both of his children. Mum has a defined contact order for every Wednesday night. Any other contact to be decided between both parties. That is all she asked for. Every Wednesday. I think this calls for the bouncy man ? Social...

HE WON!

I am so so so SO proud of him. MrKB has got FULL custody of both of his children. Mum has a defined contact order for every Wednesday night. Any other contact to be decided between both parties. That is all she asked for. Every Wednesday.

I think this calls for the bouncy man ?

Social Services have met with her, seen her home and looked into the son's medical history. They are happy with what they have found. However, the Cafcass officer did tell MrKB that they will keep a close eye on them.

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The first hearing in my husband's custody case is this morning. He's on his way to court right now. I'm so proud of him and what he is fighting for, I just pray to God the judge and Cafcass see sense and do what is right for the children.

Can I please ask that you guys keep my mind off of things? I'm going to be climbing the walls come 11 o'clock! ?

Oh and as many good luck vibes and finger's crossed as possible, please?

?

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  • Purple Pixie
    Beginner July 2012
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    That is absolutely amazing news. Congratulations!

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  • Mizz Pink
    Beginner May 2007
    Mizz Pink ·
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    I have been following your threads,

    This is brilliant news, I've just done a little smile to myself

    I hope you can all have a treat to celebrate,

    Well done to your Hubby, what a star !

    ?

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  • neffi
    Beginner January 2012
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    Woo and a great big Hoo!!! So pleased for you all, especially the girls.

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  • sherry
    Beginner May 2009
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    That really is fabulous news.

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  • EHJB
    Beginner January 2012
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    So pleased for you all KB3 X

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    Brilliant news for you all! MrKB has been fantastically strong in fighting his and the girls corner.

    While you're patting him on the back, spare a pat for yourself, many people wouldn't be anything like as supportive, patien and understanding. And now the kids have you as a f/time stepmum. Lucky girls I say.

    x

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  • tory82
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    What brilliant news!

    (i have been following but have never felt i had anything relevant to add/advise!)

    The girls are so lucky to have you as their SM.

    I bet they're ecstatic!!! x

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  • A
    Beginner August 2007
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    Wow - fantastic news!!!!!

    Does this mean you can now claim the child allowance benefits to help with the increased costs?

    What are the next steps?

    I'm so, so pleased for you all.x

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  • Dooby
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    Fantastic news!! ? Now finally you have some guaranteed security for the girls and a proper amount of back up from the Court to deal with her nonsense.

    I'm really really pleased for you all, it's a big step forward in the right direction. ?

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  • Orly Bird
    Beginner April 2007
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    Woo-hooo ! 'm so, so pleased to hear this KB3, not only for you and your husband - but for the girls as well. ? You must be so relieved. Well done for sticking it out.

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  • KB3
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    Thank you all sooo much, it really does mean a lot. I can't stop grinning! However I'm still a bit wow, this is real, I'm going to be a full time step mum - eeeek!

    Kellfi, the girls are in school so they don't know yet. I can't wait to see their little faces! The eldest will be like "righ can I do this club now dad, and that club, and so and so goes to this thing on a Thursday can I go there too? ?

    Alison, this does hopefully mean we shouldn't have any trouble claiming tax credits etc. I've printed the Child Benefit forms for MrKB to complete tonight. Finger's crossed!

    How did it go for you earlier?

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  • Zebra
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    Congratulations!

    I'm totally thrilled for you and your SDs.

    And PMSL at the ex not wanting anything "on paper" - is that to prevent her losting Child Benefit or just because she doesn't want everyone knowing what a mess she's made?!

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  • KB3
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    H has just text to say the girls both squealed when he told them then burst into fits of giggles. They are SO happy and he's realised it is worth it to see their happy faces ❤️

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  • WelshTotty
    Beginner December 2014
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    Oh KB thats such wonderful news. I cant get over just how positive that is and how happy and relieved you must all be feeling! Wow!

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  • Zo�
    Beginner July 2009
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    Oh how lovely. I am so glad its all worked out, they are lucky to have you both x

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    Oh, that's fantastic!

    x

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  • princess layabout
    Beginner October 2007
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    Hoorah! ? that's excellent news for you all, I'm so pleased ?

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  • Sunset21
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    I've only just read this thread KB3, i'm thrilled for all of you. Maybe now MrKB will have a bit of a weight lifted adn the girls can have a bit of normality/stability in their lives. Well done to all of you, it calls for a celebration ?

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  • Iris
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    Brilliant news. Here's to a happy and stable future for you all ?

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  • KB3
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    Thanks all!

    Somehow the jambalaya I was going to cook for dinner, using up the leftover roast chicken from yesterday, doesn't quite seem to cut the mustard. So, we are going out to celebrate tonight. Today needs to be marked. Well done to us all, including the girls for speaking up.

    ?

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  • K
    Beginner August 2012
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    That's lovely, have a great time tonight, you will have to all get dressed up ❤️

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  • KB3
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    I'm afraid it will only be a trip to Pizza Express or the like, I don't get home until 7pm. MrKB and I will celebrate ourselves soon though.

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  • Sparkley
    Beginner September 2007
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    Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant news mate!!!!! xx

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  • K
    Beginner August 2012
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    Ahh, but the girls can ?

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  • GMT
    Beginner December 2008
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    You so deserve a bouncy man for that news - I am very pleased for you all!

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  • Bushbb
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    Wonderful news

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    Beginner March 2012
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    That's fantastic news - I'm so pleased for you both!

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  • Hello Sunshine
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    What completely fantastic news, I'm so pleased for you all. You and MrKB should feel really proud of yourselves, you've done a brilliant thing.

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  • Gigi
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    I'm not aware of the ins and outs, but I think I have the gist of it.

    Absolutely and utterly well done to you all!

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  • Spamboule
    Beginner October 2008
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    I've followed your story and I'm really pleased for you and Mr KB3 and the girls. Fab stuff

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  • Voldemort
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    Hoorah! That's fantastic news for you both and the children ?

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  • Mrs S Smith
    Beginner August 2007
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    Oh KB3 that is GREAT news!!! You'll have to go out and celebrate ?

    Hopefully the girls can now settle in fully and their mum can start to take a step back and realise that what she's been doing will have damaged the kids previously.

    xxx

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