First/Second Dance Help Please - I need some opinions...

You can, but you don't have to - just like the "first dance", it's an optional extra and not a legal requirement of getting married.

It's entirely up to you, basically.

Sadly, my Dad isn't here anymore and it's my cousin who's 'giving me away'. So I think we'll just go with one 'first dance' and then straight on with the party. If my Dad had been here though I would most def have had a dance with him.

Hi

we are having a 1st dance just OH and I and then we thought that was it - but DJ recommended a 2nd dance - we picked Michael Buble - Everything - where we can invite people to join us on the floor.

3rd dance is Dancing Queen to get the party (this sat eeek) started!

Hope that Helps

Were going to have our first 3 dances (not 100% decided but thinking 'honeyz finally found' (took us a while to get together properly so words are very appropriate) a Michael Buble and then maybe Etta James ' At Last'...

Im having the father daughter dance later in the evening - last dance before buffet Im thinkin and band will ask any other fathers & daughters to join us if they wish.

lol thats our 1st Dance ?

Maybe your the hitcher i stole it from,lol, downloaded it onto ipod & played it for oh & we stood swooshing in the kitchen to it thinkin 'nice' ?

Thank you everyone for the advice although i am still undecided. Maybe it isnt as 'traditional' as i thought it would be?!

ASHLIL - CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so excited for you!!! I hope it all goes to plan and you both have a wonderful day, best of luck xxx

Im a total daddys girls & Im really looking forward to it - if you want it you have it - its your big special day ?

Deffo have a 2nd dance - Daddy's dance I have heard of this before and sounds great.

I have only been DJ at a couple of wedding where there was a second dance, but the idea is a good one if you are comfotabel with it and you want to dance with your Uncle then go ahead, but do not feel you have to have a second dance.

Out of the 25 odd weddings I went to last year only about 3 had second dances with fathers. A whole bunch ended up dancing with brothers or with OH again.

Personally when september comes around I don't think I'll be having a second dance. I met my fiancee while Lindy Hop Dancing but my parents really don't know. My Dad's very alpha male and anti dancing so I'm kinda wondering what's going to happen when he finds out I can actually dance. This coule be fun...