FML!!!

Ah hope you are ok! Sorry to hear about your family problems, but try not to let them ruin your day that you have been looking forward to and planning for so long.

I sometimes wish we were having a smaller wedding due to the strain (although we are only actually having people we want there - 60 in total day and night) but the feeling soon passes and I get excited again and know that what I have planned is what I want - important people in my life celebrating together

I hope this feeling comes back to you soon x

Before we got married me and OH seriously considered eloping and even started getting ideas from the Travel Agents. I am so glad that we didnt.

If there are people trying to ruin your day, don't let them bother you - it's probably jealousy.

They are JEALOUS of you thats why they are trying to pee you off. dont let them ruin these last few weeks of wedding planning enjoy it and forget about them. come the day all will be forgotton and you will have the day you wanted x

I have told oh prob a 100 times this week that I wish we had just eloped and done it on our own far away from everyone else!

I agree with the others, it is jealously Hun, although I know that doesn't help how it makes you feel. My oh keeps telling me I have got to chill out, but its so hard when you put everything you have into maKing that one day totally perfect and there are people who you though would undstand and be supportive who try and ruin it and make it all about them.

I have decided that the next person to start dictating to me or trys to ruin something will be told to f*** off and not bother coming, I don't need the stress. Don't care if it is family, friends whoever, why the hell should they be allowed to ruin the one day that should be all about us?!

Dont take any *** Hun, if they get away with it once, they will keep doing it. Tell them how it is, if they don't like it, it's their problem! Xx (I really should listen to my own advice sometimes!) xx

Hey Charlene. I hope you're ok. Our wedding isn't until April next year - our friends are good as gold but we've already got family issues on my side only which I won't go into now but believe me, they're making me want to cancel the whole thing and fly off to the Bahamas with the budget!

I guess I just wanted to give you a proverbial arm-round-the-shoulder from one Essex girl to another ? I hope things improve. I know how hard it can be when dealing with difficult people, believe me!

Take care xx

I know its easier said then done but try and ignore them, remember you're marrying the love of your life and nothing anyone can say or do can stop you. Chin up love x

I know its easier said then done but try and ignore them, remember you're marrying the love of your life and nothing anyone can say or do can stop you. Chin up lovely x

Hope your feeling a little better after your rant, families can be crap, if it makes you feel any better my sister is refusing to come to my hen weekend, no reason given and not even said it to my face has just declined the invite on facebook, I am past the stage of caring now when it comes to her, once you hit that point you feel much better I promise!! :-)

Something about weddings sends MoB and FMIL's loopy - not that it makes it any better at all but take a deep breath and realise you are not alone, there is an army of FMIL's out there torturing Brides to be and MoB making crazy silly demands.

Come on here and rant away, on the day you will be so loved up and happy you wont notice anything else.

Thanks so much for your replies xxxx