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hubbs91, 18 May, 2010 at 15:17 Posted on Planning 0 30

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Hi All... Been following all parts of the forum for months and added a little post here and there. I have wanted to add a few replies on the main "planning" part but often decide Against it. Reason being is I am the groom rather than bride!! My Bride to 2 Nichola has a very busy work load so I have been investigating a lot of the things for the wedding and then discussing them in a weekly "wedding" meeting we have with the family. I am coming across a lot of similar problems to everyone else here but not sure if it is ok for a groom to post advice or ask for advice.... I also actually feel great when you see the great post and photos of everyone's weddings and the forum has become part of daily life for me!! My Bride to 2 Nichola has a very busy work load so I have been investigating a lot of the things for the wedding and then discussing them in a weekly "wedding" meeting we have with the family. I am coming across a lot of similar problems to everyone else here but not sure if it is ok for a groom to post advice or ask for advice.... We are getting married 23/10 this year in Caerphilly Castle in South Wales. One month before we are having a Stags v Hens Ice Hockey match....... Have grooms ever got involved before or do I go back to just lurking???

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Latest activity by GEMINIBEBE, 19 May, 2010 at 09:52

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Jay-Low · 18 May, 2010 at 15:20
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Please get involved!! There is no reason why a groom can't post and I'm sure a 'male' opinion will always be welcome.

Its also so nice to see a groom taking such an active involvement - I'm sure a lot of the hitchers struggle to get their OH excited about the planning part!!

So welcome, and congrats on the wedding ?
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Beginner May 2010
bethanw · 18 May, 2010 at 15:22
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? Get involved! It's great to have a man's point of view on some things!
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Beginner October 2010
drifter · 18 May, 2010 at 15:49
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Get involved more the merrier I say

ooo and nice venue
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Debbie Graham Jewellery · 18 May, 2010 at 15:51
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Hello & WELCOME to Hitched.

What a great thing the groom being involved like this with the wedding... wish my hubby had taken more of an interest in it all when we got married

Ask away as much as you want, you will always find one of these super ladies to answer your queries

Debbie
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Beginner June 2010
waddle_thepenguin · 18 May, 2010 at 15:56
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Oh absolutely! Get involved!!!
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BonnieLass · 18 May, 2010 at 16:21
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Hello & welcome?

Definately get involved, we won't bite!
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Beginner January 2012
Suzie&Karl · 18 May, 2010 at 16:23
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Welcome!

Definatly get involed!

The groom is just as important as the bride

x
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emmy1979 · 18 May, 2010 at 16:27
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Definitely keep posting! Men sometimes have a more pragmatic and often direct way of dealing with things and sometimes on here it can become a bit girly hugs ? and tip toeing round the issue. Welcome!
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Beginner April 2011
katmoore · 18 May, 2010 at 16:27
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WSS!!! ?
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Beginner February 2011
ashlil · 18 May, 2010 at 16:27
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Hi and welcome to hitched.

Definately nice for a "groom" to be here and ask for advice, you might find your mrs2b has some ideas/questions/advice and the girls here are great for that.

Lovely venue by the way

nice to have a man's point of view on things, wish mine would hehe
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Beginner September 2010
HorseFan · 18 May, 2010 at 16:29
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Get involved!!

My groom is pretty involved with our planning but he doesn't come on here
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Beginner March 2011
SarinaCain · 18 May, 2010 at 16:31
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Hello,

Very welcome...and agree with everyone else wish my fiance would get involved more.

Sarina

p.s. I know ......you cant stop once you start on these forums!
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Beginner July 2010
brideseekingblush · 18 May, 2010 at 16:57
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Hello! Welcome. Lovely of you to be helping out.
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Beginner March 2012
Ellie_S · 18 May, 2010 at 17:51
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Awwww please post away, welcome and congrats btw?. my h2b lurks on here too lol but doesnt post, never understood why. maybe you could convince him to start posting too ?
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debmci · 18 May, 2010 at 20:19
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theres no harm in a man getting involved!! Don't worry about replying! Honest oppinions all the pay please, and a man's point of view might be good!! (esp with all the what to buy the groom/Best Men threads, and the what would he think kind of stuff!)
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Beginner March 2011
Mrs C · 18 May, 2010 at 21:12
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A groom's perspective would be brilliant!

Welcome to Hitched... post away!!! x
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Beginner November 2010
yummymummy05 · 18 May, 2010 at 21:20
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Hello and Welcome, ?

Of course you can post. Will be great having a mans point of view to things
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Beginner November 2010
Bobbins30 · 18 May, 2010 at 21:26
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Yep I agree, great to have another view on things so get involved! Oh and welcome!
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Beginner August 2010
MarieMarie1980 · 18 May, 2010 at 21:54
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Yes of course you are welcome - the more the merrier!! Welcome to hitched - happy to help!!! ?
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Beginner May 2010
Jumbly Girl · 18 May, 2010 at 21:57
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Welcome! It's lovely to have another perspective on here to stop us get so caught up in bridal silliness.... The last groom we had was ages ago - so jump in and enjoy the ride!
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Beginner September 2010
sineadw · 18 May, 2010 at 22:58
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?Welcome!!
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Beginner September 2010
lushgirlxx · 18 May, 2010 at 23:05
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Hey welcome to hitched, def get involved.
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delvesje · 19 May, 2010 at 07:45
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Welcome to Hitched, Post away.....
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Beginner June 2008
crafty em · 19 May, 2010 at 07:49
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Hi, welcome to hitched?

Post away, everyones views welcome............
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Beginner August 2010
naomiowen · 19 May, 2010 at 07:53
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Your wife 2 b is one very lucky lady! i could never see my man coming on here...............?

you should defo stick around and post, it would be good to get a mans opinion on things!
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Beginner October 2010
hubbs91 · 19 May, 2010 at 08:07
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Thank you everyone for the warm welcome.

Time to get involved then!!!!
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Beginner August 2010
The BFG · 19 May, 2010 at 09:26
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YESSSSS!!!! a mans opinion at last! lol

seriously do get involved there have been a few grooms on here before and it is nice to hear from them and it is great to get 'the grooms view' on things keep posting i say!
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