Won't go into details but a friend of mine suffered a horrible personal tragedy a few weeks back, but she is on the list for my hen party, which I need to start getting organised and sending emails round.
Obviously my main concern is her and being sensitive towards her feelings at a deeply difficult time but obviously I don't want to not include her.
I just don't want to upset her either way, by getting in touch too soon and appearing insensitive or by taking her off the list and her finding out by another way that others have been emailed and she hasn't. My gut is telling me to send an email to all of them (her included) and send her a text to say that I understand if she doesn't feel up to confirming anything just yet and to take her time if she needs it. Does that sound okay? She's just been through so much and I just desperately don't want to make it worse ☹️
Basically, what would you do in this situation?