Fuming at ex-husband trying to put a dampner on the wedding!

Urggghh what an utter Double D!!!! (big tit lol)

sounds to me like he needs to get a life! maybe "with all the money you now have" you could get him a lifetime membership to match.com for him to find someone equally obnoxious and they can fester together in their own self pity

and breaaaaaaaaaaaaaaath LOL!

He sounds like a right arse! Give him a good kick up the backside!

Oooooooooooooooooooh i do love a good insult! i might start a monday fun thread where we can put our fave insults so when we have someone we need to react to, we have a choice of phrases to hurl!

Omg what a complete butt head!!!

no liking the sound of him!

Just in case he tries anything on could you write to the court regrding his access that weekend as it is your wedding day ad an exception or is it not necessary?

Jojo, there is no way he will actually be able to ruin the wedding! He couldn't do that if he tried - even if he turned up (I have a few very big burly friends who would show him the door!)

Our son is 13 and quite able to voice his own opinion, and in fact choose whther he even sees his dad any weekend. Our access agreement actually says 2 weekends a month and a week in the summer holidays, and doesn't specify any particular days or dates, it's only ex's job that dictates which weekends. Technically I don't have to drop him off - ever - as the agreement says I have to make him available not deliver him. And besdies he's only end up aliening our son if he tried to cause trouble.

I'm just cross that he thinks it's OK to wind me up. He can't really make any difference. In fact me and my OH laughed when I had finished ranting last night. He's a twunt and not really worth wasting time/effort/breath over.

I love the word 'twunt' and it sounds so fitting for your ex right now!

I shall google a bottomless pit to throw him in.....

hahahah I googled 'a bottomless pit to throw in ex husbands' and this thread showed up!!

I could do with the bottomless pit for my ex sometimes. He doesn't know how easy he has it!!

It's good to rant though so glad you got it off your chest!

PMSL! ?

Ohhhhhh please let me know too when you find that pit ? I have my fiances ex wife to kick into it ⛈ and this is me pissing on them all while there down there! Why do they refuse to let go of there bitter twisted ways and use kids as bait to piss us off???? I feel pmt coming on I think hahaha. Maybe we should start a new thread called "evil ex update" I think I would be able to post daily lol.

What a total pain in the backside. Too right he won't spoil your wedding day but try to take lots of deep breaths and not let him ruin the planning stage either.

Your son sounds very grown up and sensible, you must be doing a very good job.

Your ex husband sounds just like my ex husband....i often call him a twunt to his face and he always asks....do you still go on hitched? lol

I have TOLD mine that i will be having Puddy christmas day and boxing day this year as OH is home from australia....and on NYE we need her for our ceremony etc....to which he replied he would have to see if it was ok with his g/f as they might have plans...WTF...we are giving him enough notice...he has had her for most of the christmas holidays the last 2 years....now OH is spending his 1st christmas with us i want us to be together.....i get comments about how much the whole NYE thing is costing especially when i told him Puddy needed school shoes etc....why are ex husbands so fecking tight and expect us to foot the bill were OUR kids are concerned?

ok rant over....i have thrown him in to the bottomless pit along with his trampy stuff!

We need a bigger pit!!

Don't get me started. . .

My EX has already started taking the boys their annual guilt trip. Every year just before Christmas he starts to feed the boys a load of crap about how little money he has. This sob story results with the boys not wanting to ask him for a decent Christmas present, , , , ,

As a family lawyer I read that post and wanted to give you advice ....sorry work mode has no shut down with me.

Perhaps he is just jealous, or maybe his OH may be putting pressure on to propose if not already married? A case of she is doing it why can't you.

If you were unreasonable I am sure he would be first to complain!

Sounds just like my ex he also told me to make sure i have my wedding in the holidays my son lives with him at the moment ( long complicated story) and my son is 10 and best man at our wedding but in the end i just said tough its my wedding and i will have it when i want it i have to be flexible for him but he cant be flexible for me ?