Getting married abroad

Hi im new to the site hope all you blushing brides are well, just a question we are booking our wedding abroad and don't know weather to go thorough a tour operator or a personal wedding planner - we have been recommended to Aphrodite wedding services but im a bit unsure of not booking through a tour operator just wondering who some of you have booked with or know someone who has booked through someone with excellent services/experience x x x x x