I know I have been on here posting random questions but with almost being at the 6 month countdown I still have quite a bit to do and obviously the financial situation of having to wait 5 weeks from xmas to get paid has slowed things down but I'm not in the mood to do anything ☹️.
I have posted h2b's divorce papers to his ex again (since the dog ate the 1st set!), h2b still has to pick his BM and GM, I have tried on countless occassions to get addresses from his mum for his side of the family to no avail, when I ask her it's as if she can't be bothered, suits need to be measured next month, invitations (I will order these at the end of the month when I get paid), favours, finalise guest list etc etc
After making the STD's I can't be bothered posting them now but spent all that time and money making them so think I have to, especially so thatt people can book the time off work as it's a bank holiday weekend...might just finalise the guest list and send them all a text ?.
I'm all sorted, BM's are all sorted, final payments need to sorted (on my budget planner anyway) for tog, florist, cars, venue decor, food, dj and harpist, songs need to sorted for dj and harpist, make up trial, hair trial, underwear needs bought, the strapless bra I have hurts so wouldn't be comfy wearing it all day as I might end up ripping it off in the middle of the ceremony.
FG dress can wait until about April or so along with her shoes, she is 8, would it be too soon even then to sort out her shoes or should I wait until closer to the time?
I'm afraid of booking time off work to sort these things incase I need to book time off for meeting with the wedding organiser person from the venue or having to meet the registrar on a weekday.
Going to speak to h2b later when he wakes up, he's been working all day from 6 about makybe contacting his neice to get the addresses for his side as one of his sisters lives in Australia as his mum keeps making excuses...it's really driving me nuts!!!!
I'm in serious need of a slap to get back on track, is there something I should be doing now that I might have missed?, should I be "relaxing" at this point, am I worrying over nothing?