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Goodbye and Thanks

Slippers, 7 April, 2008 at 15:02 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 29
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This is my last post on here - at least for some time.

The time has come for me to leave. I've hurt H a lot and I am sad that I have done it. Whilst I haven't had an affair, I was briefly tempted, but very quickly saw sense and treated it as a wake up call not to be complacent. Anyhow, he now knows and is naturally very hurt. I feel I need to invest all my time and energy into my marriage right now.

I am hoping this will turn out to be a good thing in the long run as he has highlighted lots of areas in which he is unhappy and I hope that we will be able to work through some of my concerns too.

I need to make more effort with food and around the house for starters. I owe him that much to show him how much I care and love him. It's also important for our daughter.

But this site has been a wonderful source of support. It's seen me through my wedding, birth of our gorgeous daughter, life in another country and a career change. But I don't want it to be a contributing factor for my divorce.

But I wanted to say goodbye and thanks to all my virtual friends before I go. Maybe I will back one day, maybe not. But to all, life, love and happiness.

Soren/Cathi/Slippers ?

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Latest activity by *ginni of the lamp*, 7 April, 2008 at 20:23
  • K
    Beginner August 2012
    Kellfi ·
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    Good luck, hope that it all works out for you ?

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  • M
    Beginner November 2004
    Minx Sauce ·
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    What's happened? ?

    Goodbye, take care, and hope to see you back one day ?

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  • Flowery the Grouch
    Beginner December 2007
    Flowery the Grouch ·
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    Gosh. I didn't realise this was your new name.

    I hope it all works out for you!?

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  • princess layabout
    Beginner October 2007
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    Good luck ?

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  • Rache
    Beginner January 2004
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    Bye cathi, we'll miss you? sounds like you're doing the right thing though

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  • whitty1
    Beginner December 2003
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    Am I the only who didn't realise Cathy had changed to Soren? [:I]I assumed you'd gone.

    Good luck with your marriage - hope it all comes good for you.?

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  • whitty1
    Beginner December 2003
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    Sorry, Cathi with an I not a Y - can't log in to change!

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  • B
    Beginner September 2007
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    Good luck. I hope everything works out for you. It sounds like you have a tough time juggling a career that you love with family - I hope the break gives you the time you need to get things back on track. ?

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  • haagweg
    Beginner September 2008
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    Hope you manage to sort things out, I agree that the internet in general can be a great timewaster if you are too short on time. Take care.?

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  • Gigi
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    Good luck with everything

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  • CJJ
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    Good luck. I hope it all works out for you ?

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    I'll miss you Soren. Good luck with everything, especially the Pigs.

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  • Orly Bird
    Beginner April 2007
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    I've clearly missed something of what's been going on. Good luck for the future, and hope to see you back here someday. For what it's worth, I think you've made the right decision.

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  • japonica candlewick
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    Good luck hope everything works out for you?

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    Good luck and hope to see you back here in happier times for you.?

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    Beginner July 2003
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    Bl00dy hell Cathi ? I had no idea.

    Hope you can work through everything together, I will miss seeing you on here of course, and hope to see you back sometimes.

    Good luck ?

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  • Sare
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    I'm sorry to hear that Cathi.
    There's parts of your post that are very familiar to me, so I know what you mean about not letting Hitched be a factor in a divorce.
    Hope you work things out and also that things with Chrissa get easier.

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  • Mrs Magic
    Beginner May 2007
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    Good luck and take care Cathi. ?

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    Good luck Soren, I hope to see you back in happier times.

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  • Allice
    Beginner August 2007
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    Really sorry to see you go, hope that things improve for you all.

    Oddly enough I though of you this evening when I was reading me daughter a bedtime Charlie and Lola book!

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  • Mrs Winkle
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    Good luck, I hope everything works out for you. ?

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  • hazel
    VIP July 2007
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    We were just wondering today where you'd gone - hadn't realised this was you!

    Good luck ?

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  • Diefenbaker
    Beginner September 2008
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    Good luck, hope everything works out for you ?

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  • Hungry Caterpillar
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    Goodbye and good luck, hope everything works out well for you ?

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  • Ladelley
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    Hope things work out for you. ?

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    Goodbye for now then Slippers. Hope it all goes well for you.?

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  • *ginni of the lamp*
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    I knew of you as Cathi, but will think of you as Soren. I hope everything works out in the best possible way for you all.

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