Well I have something to add to my list of things done - I got my dress!! Went last Monday to Berketex Brides in London with my mum and fell in love with an Amy Hamilton dress - can't find a photo of it online (as they don't have all their dresses on the website) but managed to take some photos of me in the sample (which was 2 sizes too small but I still didn't want to take it off!!). Not got any of the back as I was really pinned in but it has 4 buttons at the top of the neck and then a keyhole type gap on the back :o)
It all feels even more real now!!