Hi All, ?
Well this is a good start to a Monday morning but I am still absolutely fuming after this weekend! Just to clarify, it was 4 weeks to go on Saturday. ?
Right, deep cleansing breath.... and begin.
On Saturday morning I had an appointment for my BM's and I to have a dress fitting. This fitting had been booked for at least 3 months. H2B was working all weekend and had the car so my CBM offered to drive us all out (bridal shop in country village about 20 miles from the city) and I arranged for my Mum (who lives in said country village) to meet us with all of our shoes.
In a general conversation to one of my BM's last week it transpired that she had completely forgotten that we had a fitting booked and had booked flights to go to Holland to see her boyfriend. Although I was miffed, it was no biggy as I knew it was a genuine mistake and she isnt the type of person to do that on purpose. I called the bridal shop and arranged for her to go in on her own next Saturday to have her fitting. Sorted.?
So my CBM and other BM were due to meet at my flat in the morning on Saturday to go out for our fitting. Half an hour before they were due to arrive I get a text from my CBM saying that she had just got up and was "ill" so she couldnt come to the fitting but could she go to the fitting with the other BM next week?
Now this might not seem so bad and at this stage I sound completely unreasonable but I was narked for the following reasons:
1. My other BM was being driven out to my flat by her Dad (she is only 15) and they live right out of the city in the opposite direction to where the bridal shop is and would have more than likely already have left to come into the city.
2. My CBM was supposed to be driving so therefore I had to cancel the whole thing and reschedule for 4 people not just 1. I also had to cancel my Mum meeting us. My CBM hadn't even thought that this would be an issue.
3. She does things like this all the time, cancels meeting for wedding and non wedding related get togethers. If I am due to be meeting her I am now checking my phone to see if she cancels, more often than not she does.
4. She has not made any effort at any stage while the wedding has been planned. I have made so many sacrifices for her to be a part of my wedding as she is supposed to be my best friend but nothing has been appreciated, no thank yous, nothing. If anything she has given me one preverbial slap in the face after another.?
She is also booked herself completely up for every weekend from now until the wedding day so making plans which she needs to be involved in is turning into a nightmare! She sent me a text promising she would be entirely wedding focused as of this week but how can she be when she doesnt even have time to make a make up trial.?
Forgive me but are these the actions of someone who is supposed to be a CBM?! ☹️!] I'm am so sorry for the long post but I seriously needed to get this off my chest.?
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