Hello ladies!
Having a bit of a mare with our guest list. We wrote our list back in October after we first got engaged to give us something to work with so we knew how big a venue we would need. We booked our venue based on this list but i naively didn't include plus ones for single friends - i think i just decided that if i didn't know their OH/BF/GF that i wouldn't be inviting them. The flaw with this plan is that we are at a certain age now (30!) and it appears that my friends are turning things around pretty quickly - a friend who was single when i made the list in October met a boy in October, got engaged in December and is getting married next month!!!! ARGH!!! As they will be married i can hardly not invite him! There are other friends who are following this pattern too - two friends have met people and got engaged since we got engaged last September and again their OH's are not included in our numbers!!
Do you think it is ok to invite the original list and just invite these new OH's to the ceremony and the night do and not the whole thing (there isn't space in the venue to add 3 more people so 3 guests will have to be dumped from the list to make space for them!)?
Help!!!