I don't know what to do, We have booked our wedding reception in a hotel and were planning to have the ceremony at the hotel as well, but we have since had to cut our already limited budget again, so we now have to get married in a registry office as its cheaper by about £500/£600 which is fine but we can only have 28 people there including us. where we were originally getting married we were having about 56 people there. So the first problem is I cant cut the people down to only 28 its impossible, I cant have some people and not the others (im already not inviting my cousins to the day part) I know that sounds a bit contradictory but the people i cant not invite are all uncles and aunts, brothers, sisters, step parents on both sides etc.
So I suggested to my H2B that why don't we just get married in the registry office just the 2 of us, 2 witnesses and our 2 children, then we can go straight from the registry office to the hotel where everyone can go and have the meal and speeches and party But H2B is adamant he couldn't do that!
Im so fed up of weddings we have ages til our wedding and Im already thinking of giving up and eloping (but H2B WONT!)
Sorry for the moany post just needed to vent
