Hello
I am really worried about my h2b. we are getting married in december and now sorting out suit fittings, stag party etc for him. he was originally going to have 2 best men, both childhood friends however he doesn't see them very much. h2b is happy in his own company, he goes out with his work mates every so often but is very much happy being on his own, building his car etc
both friends agreed to be his best men, he was really excited until one announced he was moving to hong kong this month and may not be back and can't commit to anything, suit fittings, stag do etc. this friend was going to be the one who did the speech and probably organised the stag do as he is the one who is more outgoing and 'good' at these sorts of things. the other friend is still ok to be a best man, but loves a few hundred miles away and is quite shy and really doesn't want to do a speech - this is going to be a problem if the other friend can't make the wedding.
i feel so sorry for my h2b, he just wants his friends to be involved and do something, do you think i should email them? or would that be wrong and seem like i am interfering? i want him to enjoy every part of the planning and this is really bothering him.
what do you all think?
x
