Hello,
Further to my recent post, we have a plan about the wedding! Basically, we have decided that if he does have bowel cancer, we will get married in a registary office next month, when we can, nice and quick, then have a proper day in december (so we have time to save, time for compensation to come through) we will have a blessing of some kind (need to talk to vicar tomorrow) or renewing our vows in church, with a reception after. If it isn't cancer, we may still do this idea, or just wait untill Decenber to get married properly in church 
. Feel a lot less stressed now i have a plan, H2B loves this idea too, we just both want to get married!
things seem to be a lot better now the initial shock/worry/anger has worn off. so now i have to think about a winter wedding eeek, what things need to change? Please can i have advice as to where to start?
Thank you
