Has had the morning from hell (rant not wedding related)

That's pants!

Call the police and get them both arrested, son or no son..

Omg...! I'd be on the phone to the police pronto!

We did call police but there were 2 options one was to have both arrested and poss not get stuff back due to evidence or the other was to get them to sign stuff back but if police went down that route they couldnt then arrest them if not found we went with latter as his son looked like he was being forced into the situation by his mother and he looked scared, when the police caught them they said they had been trown down drain at the end of our rd after draining 3 drains with a vax still nothing so cant get them arrested and have had to change all locks on both house and cancel all cards OH is upset as he has a fab relationship with his son and feels more let down about that than the other stuff as she was violent when she got in and i have a baby in the house the police said i should get injunction with power of arrest but this again is expensive and we are not rolling it thanks for responding x

Oh my gosh. Michelle, do not give her the satisfaction of arguing with your OH.

We are ok he called and apologised and said he diidnt mean to lash out at me but is just finding the whole situation stressful x

OMG! Not sure what to say but didn't want to read and run! I could definitely think of a few choice words for what sounds like a lovely specimen of a woman but probably not helpful :-s

x

Wow - definitely the last thing you need to be dealing with.

What's done is done, but if there are any repeats you really need to press charges, even if it means the son also. ☹️

I think my oh is now on the same thinking lines as me and if there are any repeats they will be charged have spoken to solicitor and minus her fees its £70 for the injunction with arrest order attached so we will be getting one on monday thanks for all of your support considering its not wedding related !! on a plus side i booked the limo yay !! x

If the son apologised maybe he feels guilty enough that his mum won't be able to persuade/force him to do it again - hopefully.

on the plus side yay for limo!

xx

God how awful, i'm sorry you are having to go through this. I hope something gets sorted soon.

Yay for limo though!