Have you ever thought....what if?

This is actually hillarious - i think your attitude comes across just perfectly.

But I did if you read my post what feels like a million pages back. Go on, go back and read it and get a bit more het up.

If you all want to continue dragging this out then that is lovely but I have got other things to be getting on with. Tarrar!

So if I was to call you a random word that is in no way appropriate to you such as 'bitter' for example, that would be ok? As IF I was was to use that word for whatever reason it would be ok as it would be a 'casual remark'?

I've never thought 'What if?' nope.. Cos I know my H2B wont get any better than me and couldn't function without me ?

Smug, me? Yup ?

Smug even to the end!

Mwhahahahaha!

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I must also be smug as my MIL2B said to me if only he met you before he married her (his ex) she won't say her name lol

Oh Jesus....I never intended this to be a 'handbags at 10 paces' thread!

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Personally i know my experiences with the first marriage failing and his lame attempts at being a father has in all made me a better and stronger person, though pregnancy does make the hormones go a bit wild.

I think for those who find 'the one' early in life, it is to be seen as something good. Finding the one is hard, some of wait a lifetime it seems. At no point would i call anyone smug.....

...at the end of the day, when our big day comes though, aren't we all going to be feeling somewhat smug? afterall we'll have just married the man we love, and the one we want.

So i would just like to say......I WILL BE UBER SMUG IN 2 WEEKS TIME! ?

OOH grab that handbag Trickers! ?

Or me Trickers....

Now now ladies....i'll have you know that pregnant or not i can kick ass in a cat fight! ?

I agree ! I found " the one " was married for 15 years and some issues came to light. All my friends couldn't believe it and thought we were perfect. I never thought I would be divorced in a million years ! I agree if you can marry your childhood sweetheart and be married forever that is something to be immensely proud of. But you know what ? Not one of us on this forum is married forever as our futures are still ahead of us so we can't comment only hope. Will I be smug on my wedding day marrying the man I feel I have waited my lifetime for ? NO ! Because this love thing is about luck as well as good judgement and hard work believe me ! I don't think anyone should have any doubts about getting married in an ideal world but those of us that have been hurt and bitten before maybe look at things a little more intensely. No one is wrong here you are all entitled to feel how you feel the only wrong here is some are not allowing others their right to feel the way they do !!!!!! Another thing you learn with life experience and blummin old age !!!!!!!!!! lol x

But they are not going to so don't give it anymore thought. IT'S FRIDAY AND IT'S WINE O CLOCK X

I am having a nice sauvingnon blanc and I am drinking his mate tommorrow ! I become very wise on wine so may be back later to spout euphemisms and general $%£% later ! lolololololol !

I will of course then come back tommorrow and delete with a shamed face ! Have a good evening ladies x

I actually have no doubts whatsoever that me and my OH will work out. I've been married before and it was very very horrible (husband had an accident right in front of me, feel 25ft onto his head and ended up having to have his frontal lobes removed in an emergency operation) and honestly I think I've had all the bad I could possibly have lol. This time it's different. Yes I honestly thought that my ex and I would be together forever but we were very young and it was very different. Looking back now that Im older I can see all sorts of things that was wrong in our relationship. i honestly couldn't ask for a nicer man this time arouns. He is kind, selfless, sweet, funny and is just a good person through and through!!

My parents and childhood sound a lot like yours. I have said to my mum that she probably never realised how much pressure this put on me to get it right. Probably one of the reasons I've never married before, in case it went wrong.

Thats right, rub it in....i can't have wine xxx