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Have your or will you be talking with your OH about babies before the wedding?

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moonpie1985, 15 October, 2011 at 12:59

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Babies is something that me an OH agree we both want. Never thought the discussion would need to be had. But - starting to worry that we have different ideas of when to have them. What are you doing?

Babies is something that me an OH agree we both want.

Never thought the discussion would need to be had.

But - starting to worry that we have different ideas of when to have them.

What are you doing?

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Beginner September 2012
ClaireMcToBe · 16 October, 2011 at 13:33
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You definitely need to talk about it so you know exactly where you both stand. There is still time for him to do the travelling he wants and then for you to settle into family life by the time you are in your early 30's, but you really need to discuss what sort of time frames you are looking at. You don't want to be on a completely different page, and by talking openly about your expectations you can reach a compromise.

I've already got mine, had my son when I was 22, my daughter when I was 24, and I'll be 26 when the wedding comes around. Now just need to chat to him about having a "legal" one, lol
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