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Having a bad day :-(...........

hjd1, 8 April, 2011 at 13:19 Posted on Planning 0 4

Hi everyone,

I just wanted to make sure it's not me bing crazy and needed some like minded people to talk to! We're getting married in July and also currently buying our forst house. Needless to say money is so tight its unreal. It's actually extremely depressing and to add fuel to the fire my OH needs an op on his knee which has very nicely fallen on a day (of all days) where I was supposed to go away to work. I'm not leaving him alone but that means losing out on a few hundred quid. Just what we need. I'm currently away with work and I just can't stop crying, I'm so stressed, mainly about cash flow. I know it'll all work out somehow but i just hate it and I hate the fact I can't enjoy the run up to my wedding! Anyone else starting to lose the will to live!? I need a glass of wine lol

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Latest activity by SoontobeMrsSSmith, 8 April, 2011 at 14:17
  • MrsWill2b
    Beginner March 2013
    MrsWill2b ·
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    We are also having money issues and along with a grabalicious ex who is claiming she wants some money off my fiance, wedding has had to be put back ☹️ So now I have a wedding dress but no wedding. And I'm comfort eating so I might not fit into my dress when the time comes.

    However, the sun is shining and its the weekend tomorrow! I hope your troubles work out and big hugs to you x

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    Beginner July 2011
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    It's so funny you say about comfort eating....I thought to myself, oh well at least if i'm stressed I'll go nice and skinny! Erm......fry up for breakfast isn't going to make me skinny hahahahaha. You're right, the sun is out and the most important thing is me and OH are still getting on! Although if he doesn't do his "to do" list soon I think I might lose my cool. MEN!

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  • Little Madam
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    That's one thing for sure - if you can get through this, you can get through everything.

    I'd honestly go and have that large glass of wine - it won't make anything better but you will forget for a while.

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  • Panjita
    Beginner May 2011
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    Argh, I keep telling my OH to get a clean break order! What is she claiming money for?

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    I feel for you.

    We are doing quite nicely still with the amount of money we are owed and invoices issued, but cash flow is bad because everyone is in the same situation and being slow about paying.

    People need to stick together. Can you not get a familt member / friend / neighbour to do a favour and look after your fiance while he needs that op?

    Even if you have a to bride them with a bottle of wine / steak dinner or whatever, its better than losing a few hundred quid. Or trade services. Maybe they need something done in their house? in exchange for helping you out.

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