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he hurt my daughter

(pf), 4 November, 2009 at 10:42 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 1

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First of all sorry i have been away for so long and now im straight back needing help, but i didnt know where else to turn.

ill start at the beggining. i have 2 kids a girl who's 8 and a boy who is 5. i was pregnant with my daughter when i got with the boys dad and he has taken her as his own from birth the biological dad has nothing to do with her.

they have started to go to thier dads over night on a saturday night and stay for the sunday. its been a battle for me to make him have his children. they think the sun shines out of him and i dont say anything different. last weekend they came home and my daughter had a mark on her forehead. i asked what it was and he said makeup and so did my daughter.

fast forward to this morning my daughter had stayed the night with my mum and after we had dropped them at school my mum told me that my daughter had told her what happened at her dads. .... she had got some nail varnish on her head and her dad had "one off on one" and dug his nails into her. now im not silly i know sometimes i scratch when i dont mean to but this is a massive red mark and its scabbed over. then she tells me ....my daughter had accidently pushed my son over and her dad grabbed her arm yanked her back and told her off makig another mark on her arm.

i have txt him (he's at work) and i have got no answer im bloody fuming. what do i do?

i could say you are not having them anymore BUT that would hurt the kids and i dont want to over react.

i really dont know what to do now

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Latest activity by (pf), 6 November, 2009 at 18:44

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Oompa-Loompa · 4 November, 2009 at 20:24
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Thats an awful situation. I would suggest that you need to talk to your daughter and be absolutely clear on what happened and how she feels about it. Does she still want to see her 'dad'? After you have spoken to your daughter then I guess you need to get hold of your ex and have a serious discussion with him.

Thats probably not much help to you, but not sure what else to advise really.

As you've not been around for awhile you might not be aware that Hitched has seen a bit of decline in numbers, hence no replies to your post all day! A new forum has been set up where most of the old OT'ers are (me included!). I don't normally post on here anymore but I didn't want you to think you were being deliberatly ignored. Try re-posting over here:

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(pf) · 6 November, 2009 at 18:44
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I have had a word with them both even though it was more of a telling off to the ex as he had no input (his choice) grr but i have told im its his final chance.

thank you for the link ill pop over and have a look xx
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