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ruthy_wuthy
Beginner September 2009

Hello from ex-WPer

ruthy_wuthy, 9 December, 2008 at 18:15 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 19

Hi,

I used to post on WP regularly and sometimes on OT too...but since I'm not getting married anymore it feels a little bit inappropriate to be posting on WP at the moment. Or maybe the whole thing it's just a bit too raw for me at the moment to brave posting on WP...I don't feel like I have anything particularly useful to contribute to marrieds-to-be when I couldn't even make my own relationship/engagement work (I'm honestly not normally this bitter....!)...so I thought I'd come on here and pester you all instead.

I hope no one thinks badly of me for graduating myself from WP to OT....I stayed away from Hitched altogether for a few weeks...but I missed the community on here...and the support.

Very sorry that first post on OT (or at least first in a while) is a needy one....I promise I will think of something slightly more interesting for the next one, or if not interesting, at least a less "woe is me" post.

xxxxxxxxxx

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Latest activity by whirlwind666, 9 December, 2008 at 23:19
  • Melancholie
    Beginner December 2014
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    Welcome Ruth ?

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  • (Mrs) Magic of Christmas
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    ? Ruth.

    I'm sorry things haven't worked out. ?

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  • LouM
    Beginner August 2007
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    Hellooooo! ? Chin up sweetie. There are plenty of OTers who are graduates of the school of failed relationships, moi included, so you will always have a sympathetic bunch to rant at if you need to.

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  • digitalskittles
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    Welcome to OT ?

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  • Hungry Caterpillar
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    Good to see you ?

    Sorry to hear things didn't work out with your relationship, but always know you are welcome on here.

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  • chids
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    Glad you've not ditched hitched completely ruth

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  • WifeyLind
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    Welcome to OT Ruth ?

    Sorry to hear you've not had a good time of it.

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  • sherry
    Beginner May 2009
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    I followed your post on WP, glad to see you on OT ?

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  • babygreenuk
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    Hi Ruthy ?

    Sorry to hear youve had a rotten time. Life can be crapp at times, but try and stay positive. Welcome back to Hitched, a good place to be when in need of support, or just in need of a good rant!!

    babyg x

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  • ruthy_wuthy
    Beginner September 2009
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    Thank you for all the welcomes!

    I have been through a bit of a crap time, but I'm fairly happy at the moment..albeit a little bit lonely!

    I've never lived on my own..always lived with my mum, or friends or with the ex so it's taking a bit of getting used to but I'm enjoying my own space very much! Having said that, I really have no idea what I do all day...but I get up and before I know it, I'm going to bed! Whatever it is I'm doing(other than work), I'm sure it felt like I had more free time when I was engaged! Maybe it's because I have more things to look after now that I'm on my own!

    I feel pretty positive about things...I just miss him. But I guess it wouldn't be normal if I didn't!

    xxx

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  • ruthy_wuthy
    Beginner September 2009
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    Hi!

    Yeah that was me! You remembered me!

    I haven't had another test since..I've had a few more lessons but then I got labyrinthis so I couldn't drive because I was too dizzy and then all this stuff happened so my mind was on other stuff unfortunately. I'm hoping on picking it back up in the new year...I don't want to forget what I've learnt so far!

    xxx

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  • Maxiletoe & Wine
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    Hiya Ruthy Wuthy

    I'm glad you'll be sticking around on OT ?

    (i'm Maxi btw)

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  • AnnaBanana
    Beginner July 2007
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    Hi RuthyWuthy!

    Sorry to hear about your wedding, as you know hitched is invaluable for support so please feel free to ask for it, or email me anytime (you speak spanish right?) <stalker icon> ! Hope you're ok ?

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  • ruthy_wuthy
    Beginner September 2009
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    Hi!

    I don't know who's who nowadays! What with all the christmas themed names! I want one..Ruthy Wuthy is a bit pants though..not very christmas friendly at all!

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  • ruthy_wuthy
    Beginner September 2009
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    That's me!

    Awwwww...I feel a bit overwhelmed that you remember things about me when I haven't even been around for that long.

    ?

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  • AnnaBanana
    Beginner July 2007
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    Hehe i remember you from a translation thread I think!
    Si quieres escribirme, cuando quieras! Y vivo en Bath asi que si algun dia quieres darte un paseito me encantaria conocerte y darte la vuelta por la ciudad!

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  • Spamboule
    Beginner October 2008
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    Hi Ruth ?

    I read your post on WP, sorry to hear your news. I'm glad you're sticking around on Hitched, I think it's a great community ?

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  • whirlwind666
    Beginner November 2009
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    Hey babe, well done for coming back!! It took me a whole year after my wedding was cancelled, but you won't regret it! I'm onto weding no2 now, but tend to hang out on OT cos it's more fun lol! If you wanna chat, I'm here xx

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