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Hello, will you let me in?

Santatranter, 24 October, 2012 at 23:15 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 27
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Just posted on a thread and wondering if this will let me post again. I am not engaged yet but hopefully this will be soon. I had major back surgery 3 months ago and in the run up all my bf had to say was'when you get your back done' so as soon as that was done I started searching and came up with here. I have been lurking since then and after about one day there discovered here and have found such a lovely bunch of people here so I hope you treat me like atb as I need some interaction whilst off work! There are so many threads I have wanted to contribute to (dttb, mil!) so I thought I would take the plunge and go for it.

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Latest activity by *Mini*, 25 October, 2012 at 21:44
  • *Funky*
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    Hello!

    Welcome to hitched! ?

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  • *gnashers*
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    You sound like me a while ago ?

    Welcome!

    What back surgery did you have? OH's usher has horrendous back issues so I can really sympathise.

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    Hello and Welcome

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    ? hi

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    Hello and welcome. Smiley smile

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    ? Welcome! Get stuck in - oh and get a funky new avatar picture ?

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    Welcome ?

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    Hello and welcome.

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    Hello!! Welcome to the dark side ?

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    Hello!

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    Hi, welcome to Hitched.

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    Hello and welcome ?

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    Hello & welcome!

    Hope you have a speedy recovery- hitched will help pass the time!

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  • Santatranter
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    I have had spinal fusion to correct scoliosis so I have 28 screws and two Titanium rods down my back and a pretty impressive scar! I'm glad I had it done though.

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  • *gnashers*
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    He had a fusion too!

    Sadly his didn't work ☹️

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    Hello & welcome to the mad house ?

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  • Santatranter
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    Ah crap,was hoping you wouldn't say that. Although I do know of lots of people who have had it done and for Hom it was successful, and some for whom it wasn't. Well positive vibes for me then!

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    ? Welcome to Hitched! Any idea what sort of wedding you might have?

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  • *gnashers*
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    Yea, he knew the risks when he had it done. Tis a shame but what will be will be and all that

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    Well it changes all the time in some respects as my friend got married over ten years ago and I was chief wedding planner for it but as I get older it changes. I know I want to get married in my childhood church even though I have moved away from that one but I would want the priest from my school church. Then my dream venue would be 'the venue' at Moddershall oaks. However, the main problem is my OH hates being the centre of attention so I want to make it as comfortable for him so I wondered if we could get away with just a reception at our house? He hasn't got a big family and my family is massive so it would be a case of either invite some or all! I started asking a list and it just gets longer. I think he thinks I want a cute traditional wedding so when I show him things I think brings his personality he reckons I'm joking. Such as a cake topper of a bride and groom on the back of a motorbike! Also on here I saw the idea of having formula one drivers as table names with cards with all their stats on. Aaaand also loved the idea of peacock feathers but I'm sure I've read on here that they are a bit tacky. Actually Cricks you have made me realise that I had thought about it more than I realised, this is why I came over to OT because we haven't got a clue about the date. The big thing is that I don't want to plan for years but realise to book what we need it may mean a lot of compromise.

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    How old was/is he if you don't mind me asking?

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  • *gnashers*
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    He's 27, how come you ask...

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  • Santatranter
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    Just because I'm 32 and usually the surgery is done at an early age say late teens or a lot older and I figured he should be around the same age.

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  • *gnashers*
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    Oh I seeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

    He was 24 when he had the op done.

    Scary operation though!

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    Yeah my words of wisdom are do NOT watch videos of it on you tube before you go in! Funny how many people know of someone who has had it done.

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