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Beginner August 2012

Help! Mystery wedding gift

chloe_chloe, 24 October, 2012 at 12:10 Posted on Planning 0 4

We received a gift at our wedding and have no idea who it is from - no label, no card attached, nothing!

There are two couples who gave us neither a present nor a card, so I'm assuming it's from one of them. I want to find out who it's from so I can thank them, but how do I go about it? I don't want to ask each couple directly, as if it's not from them and they haven't even bothered to give us a card then it might get a bit embarassing.

I was wondering whether to send each couple an e-mail in blind copy, making it look as though we've sent it to all guests and asking the person who gave it to get in touch.

What would you do!?!?

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Latest activity by clarehj, 24 October, 2012 at 21:44
  • Kentish Gal
    Beginner July 2013
    Kentish Gal ·
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    I'd do as you suggest! Be effusive about how overwhelmed you are by the lovely presents etc, then ask about that one. It will be fine, especially if you say there's no need to reply unless they gave it.

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  • karenanne229
    Beginner October 2013
    karenanne229 ·
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    Do what you suggested. Say that it's really lovely and you'd like to thank the person personally but can't work out who it's from x

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  • sian-tiffany
    Beginner May 2012
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    This ^^

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  • ellebob
    Beginner February 2013
    ellebob ·
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    You've just reminded me we were sent flowers with no card when my daughter was born and we still don't know who they were from! ?

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  • clarehj
    Beginner April 2012
    clarehj ·
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    Could you send thank you cards to both couples? It means you thank the couple that did get you the gift, and make the other couple feel bad for not doing so!

    We just haad one guy who didn't even get us a card or anything. Really mean-spirited!

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