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Help! Need venue for late wedding and buffet

HappyIvoryDiamonds554, 4 June, 2016 at 11:49 Posted on Planning 0 5

Hi, I do hope someone can help me. I am based in Kent and this is a second wedding for both myself and my partner and we have decided we do not want the whole wedding breakfast then evening do, but just want to have a later wedding then a nice buffet for all and an evening of band, music, milling and dancing.
Therein lies the problem! I cannot find a venue anywhere that will offer a late afternoon wedding and evening buffet for around 150 guests.

After hours of trawling, I did find one, The Plough, great hire price until I saw buffet at £36 a head. Seen other lovely barns which look amazing, then I see the ridiculous amount of money they want to hire them. We are on quite a tight budget, absolute maximum £5000 for everything and are really struggling to find somewhere nice.

We do like things a bit different and would like something like a barn, castle (not holding my breath, lol) or even a lovely old country hotel with grounds to wander in. There are loads, but it's either the whole package for an arm and a leg or nothing.

Can someone help me before I abandon my wedding plans all together. Thank you

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Latest activity by katiepoppycat, 10 June, 2016 at 13:07
  • Paula @ Ollievision
    Paula @ Ollievision ·
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    Have you tried looking at midweek and off season dates? The venues are more flexible then re what packages they offer.

    This might be helpful http://ww2.ollievision.co.uk/wp/index.php/save-money-on-your-wedding/

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    Hi, I don't know the area so I'm sure you will get more specific advise from others but if costs are spiraling what about either a registry office wedding followed by your party at a nice country pub or a celebrant/humanist ceremony somewhere that isn't licenced for weddings. That would still need the registry office before or after to make it legal but would allow you a nicer ceremony that isn't legal to invite everyone to. Keep the registry office as just the legal bit that you don't invite people to. ?

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    Beginner December 2015
    SunnyPinkConfetti310 ·
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    Do you have any nice church halls near you? We have a gorgeous one in our village, it was restored a few years ago, and I have see pictures of it dressed up for weddings, and it looks gorgeous.

    One wedding had the guests on long tables with benches, and the wedding party on a table across the top. They had decorated the tables really nicely and had a few decorations/fairy lights etc. They also had a buffet. The only thing is you'd probably have to apply for an occasional license for music and dancing, and to serve alcohol, but these are easy to obtain (although you wouldn't be able to sell alcohol - guests would have to bring their own or you'd need to supply it free of charge).

    This is a wedding in Kent in a village hall which came up on an Internet search, and it looks fab - https://english-wedding.com/2013/09/a-colourful-traditional-floral-country-village-fete-wedding-in-kent/

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  • Katscamel
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    It depends where you are. I haven't been but there's The Night Yard near Canterbury that looks .....interesting. They're on facebook and have a website though a bit crap.

    There's a pub called the Blue Pigeon (I think though might need to come back and edit that) in Worth. My friends son recently got married there and looks lovely. You could also try the universities etc... ok so maybe not the most attractive buildings but somewhere like UKC has great views. Um.... there's also a place Margate way called Salmestone Grange.

    Hope these help.

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  • Karen84
    Beginner July 2016
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    If you go on KCC's website, they have a lot of venues you can search through: http://www.akentishceremony.com/venues/

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    Beginner August 2017
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    This might be a bit patronising, but have you tried just ringing and asking places you like? Some friends of ours did that and had a 1700 thursday ceremony at Muncaster Castle in Cumbria at an unfeasibly cheap price.

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