Hi, I have my heart set on my local country pub venue. We have identified a suitable date (to fit in with teachers in the family). Matched it with the church, done the sums, and cut the guests to fit with their maximum all because we love it. And most people we know think it is our perfect venue. We went in for a final chat before we go to the church on Tuesday and here is the problem. They told us under 16s have to leave by 10pm. We have a few small children coming and this does not present a problem. However I have brothers who will be 14 and 15 by the time of the wedding in 16 months time. This seems to be a condition on their licence. I have discussed with my stepdad about the condition and it went down like a lead balloon. The thing is they normally spend most parties glued to their game boys and get fed up. I will be devastated if we change venues and they do the same. I haven't actually told them yet as I would love to find a way round it - does anyone know whether you can apply to alter the conditions? If they did leave by 10pm our house is 5 mins away and we would set it up with pizzas, play station etc?
i need some ideas as I am currently heartbroken by the idea of having it elsewhere!
thanks