Hi all,
Bit of background, we live in England but I have a lot of family in Northern Ireland so we are getting married there. Due to our venue size we can only have 70 guests. We've found this quite hard as we've not been able to offer plus 1's, children or some friends invites. I've invited 1 person from work, she is also a friend. At first I only invited her but she asked me for a plus 1, for lots of reasons I gave in and said yes but I wanted to know who she would ask. She mentioned 2 people who I was happy with so all fine. As I have not had her RSVP yet I text asking who she decided. I got a text back saying in might X but might be my new boyfriend, I still have ages to decided. This has annoyed me for lots of reasons. I don't like X and I don't know her BF as she is only been with him for a month. I do still have 5 months but I have to get everything ready here and send it to my mum so stuff like table plan, favours (name attached) has to go in hold waiting for her. She is my only problem and I don't know what to do. I replied to the text saying I'll catch up with her next week but I'm really annoyed. Everyone at our wedding both me and OH have meet, know and like. I have a couple of other people that would have liked a plus 1 but due to numbers have not been able to offer. How awful will it look if they find out about this random person?? What would you do/ say. I'm a bit of a wimp and hate arguments!!
