Hello Hitchers!
My bridesmaid and I are starting the think about my hen do and who to invite. We're going to be staying in Edinburgh for two nights - girly night in on first night and big night out on the second. I've always thought that I wouldn't want my mum on my hen do, mostly because I think it's meant to be a wild night out and I'm not sure I'd want my mum to see that! I know it's very common for mums and FMILs to be at the hen do now so I was a bit worried about having that discussion with my mum... Thankfully she feels the same and came right out and said she wouldn't want to/expect to be at the hen do, without me having to say anything! However, I'm fairly certain my FMIL would expect to be invited (she was at her other daughter-in-law's hen) and I don't know how to subtly tell her she's not invited without hurting her feelings (last thing I'd want to do!). Any ideas? Or do I just invite her and convince my mum to come too so she doesn't feel left out?!
