Ive been looking at the forums all week so I thought I'd join and introduce myself! im lisa, getting married next june to my oh mark, we began as friends with benefits about 13 years ago and been a couple for about 11. we have a 10 year old son and most of our family & friends had decided we would never get married, us getting engaged in june (and announcing we had booked the wedding already) was quite a nice surprise for them!