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hitched vibes plz ,feeling nervous now !!!

Nancy Noodles, 16 March, 2012 at 11:21 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 7

So back in January i found out that my dad had other children apart from me , my brother D and sister E !! We found out that we have a brother 29 and twin sisters 31 , we have all been chatting back and forward and a few times there has been a "lets meet" conversation , still coming to terms with this we have brushed it under the carpet , but now me ,D and E have decided its time that we do meet in the easter half term !! As i have been the one organising it , the very second i hit the send button on the lets meet message i just feel very nervous !! i havent before but the whole situation feels so weird , so many things changing !! it means im not the oldest , im also an aunty to six , yes thats six neices and nephews!! It also means that my new brother will want to meet his dad ! (The twins were adopted as babies and have never wanted to know my dad)

Please send me some vibes so i can shake these nerves !!!!

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Latest activity by TheNinjaPigeon, 16 March, 2012 at 13:49
  • Nutella
    Beginner March 2013
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    Wow thats quite some change to get used to, no wonder you're feeling a bit weird about it! Lots of vibes for you, hope it all goes well ?

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  • SassyT
    Beginner August 2013
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    Wow, you must be a ball of emotions!

    Positive vibes coming your way!

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  • jen_84
    Beginner August 2012
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    I hope it all goes well for you! Exciting, but I can imagine a very nervous time.

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  • lamby
    Beginner August 2010
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    Wow that must be loads to take in and deal with. I'm sure I'd feel exactly the same. Good luck and lots of vibes coming your way ?

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  • skyrocket
    Beginner July 2012
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    Wow you must be feeling so many emotions right now!

    Deep breaths!

    Sending you lots of positive thoughts

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  • 1234ABC
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    Positive Vibes coming you way!!

    I can't imagine how you must be feeling! I don't see my biological father anymore, so i don't know if i've got any more Brothers and Sisters that i don't know about. But I'm one of 5 as it is with my mum and i don't really want to know if there is any more of us!

    You'll probably find that when you meet, you will all get on so well and chat about everything and you'll wonder why you were so nervous in the first place!

    Hope it all goes well!

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  • *Ducky*
    Beginner July 2012
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    Wowie! That's a big piece of news!

    You must be nervous, BUT think of the positives: They may be great people/friends to add to your support network, there is a couple of you and a couple of them so much less intense than a 1 on 1, hopefully conversation will flow.

    Please meet somewhere public just for safety but alo for my next point...

    IF (and that's a big if) they turn out to be weird/scary you don't ever have to meet them them again if you so wish. By meeting once you are signing a contract that promises a lifetime of friendship, especially if they don't know where you live!

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  • TheNinjaPigeon
    Beginner January 2011
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    Wow that's a lot to deal with! I really hope it goes well and your new family is great.

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