I didn't want to derail HAGs thread but I wondered what your experiences have been in this regard. I've phoned, and been given information without any sort of qualifying questions asked, in relation to my mum, nan, sister, dad's partner and even a friend's husband's mum. The latter two definitely wouldn't have thought to put me on an 'allowed' list of people to give out information to and, given the circumstances of their admissions, I doubt even mum, nan or sister had done so either.
I've heard several people say that the privacy issue is drummed in to them from training onwards but in my experience people have always been willing to give out plenty of information about the people I've enquired about. Granted none of these people are high profile (except to me, of course!) but I have never experienced a nurse/doctor or otherwise putting up any resistance to giving out information.
How about you?