I am due to start a doctorate in clinical psychology in a couple of weeks and FILwas qustioning me about it when we had dinner at the pub tonight. He asked when I would be contributing to society when I was qualified, so I replied that hopefully I'd be helping people to feel btter about themselves, cope with life better etc etc.
He said 'so you'll basically be working with people who are derranged then? I think it's a complete waste of resources. No disrespect to you, but you'll be basically dealing with issues that could have been sorted out a few years previously with a good kick up the arse?!'
So I tried to challenge him on this view a bit and explained that there is a biological basis for many mental health issues, and what about thing like Learning Disabilities? FIL's view was that basically children with LDs shouldn't be allowed to be born because they are a drain on society!!!!!
I then mentioned things like PTSD in ex-forces people etc. His view was that people who end up like that should never have been in the armed fores to begin with and the whole problem is becuse the Army is full of drop-outs and failures who can't look after themselves in the real word and that's why they suffer from MH problems!!!
Tbh I was like this ? - utterly speechless! How can people hold views like this in this day and age??????