How damn rude....

No social skills. maybe hes a sociopath. I think my assistant is one too, he bound up to me whilst i was eating lunch a few days ago and asked loudly "are you like, an anorexic?" ? random.

I'd be a bit tempted to puting a compliant to be honest, as he is in a "customer facing" role.

What a nasty souless little man.

Your assistant said that to you? How very random! (and rude)

To the OP, im inclined to agree with Hyacinth, could you perhaps have a word with your manager?

My God, what an absolute twat of a security guard! If he ever says anything again, just say that you pity him having the IQ and EQ equivalent of a very small worm.

Here, a ? for you.

Hyacinth that is really rude!

To be honest we have already complained about him and he has had a couple of warnings. He said something similar to another girl and she was pregnant at the time!!

I might mention to my Team Leader. Not sure how much she can do as he doesn't actually work for us he is employed by 'building management'.

Thanks for the hug NightOwl!

I can only think he doesn't understand what anorexic means, as I can't think of any reason why he thinks I could be (not that its his business or place to know)but its the latest in a line of randomness, including quizzing me on how much wine I drink and telling me he won't introduce any of his friends to his wife (arranged marriage) because she will have an affair with them.

sociopaths.

I hoep he gets an even bigger talking to and finds a new job in a little room alone.

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Hyacinth and the OP, those people are shocking. Hugs to you both, I really don't know what I'd say in that situation because I'd be so shocked!

I'm another one who'd be tempted to put a complaint in about the security guard. Who does he think he is?! Of course, I presume he's perfect in every way to be able to make such an insenstive comment like that?!

I had the same a few years ago, I'd had a severe reaction to the contraceptive implant and as a result Iooked horrific, I was greasy and covered in boils all over my face. One night, when I was going home I'd just got in the lift with a few colleagues when another colleague got in and turned around, looked me in the eye and sang to 'Oh Rachel why are you so spotty, it looks horrible'.

I nearly died. I spent the whole journey home crying. Needless to say when i confronted him the next day he didn't think he'd done anything wrong and I was being hypersenstive. Knob.

R.

He sounds like a prize idiot, what a unnecessary and rude thing to say, if you can i'd try and avoid him and his comments in the future.

Hope all goes well with the treatment ?