Hi all,
Just want to get my worry off my chest really and ask if any of you have been in a similar situation and how you handled it.
i have 3 Aunties on my Dad's side, 2 of which I have seen maybe 3 times in 5 years and my OH has met them a couple of times in the 11 years we have been together. I want to invite the one I see more of to the wedding but the other two I really don't want to, however because they are family they have already had words with my Dad and Gran about being invited, one of them saying something like 'it is a great excuse for a p*** up', which makes it worse that she only sees it for that reason (she never congratulated us on engagement etc.).
I am just having the same guests all day/night so if I did invite them they'd be part of the ceremony, wedding breakfast and night time.
I am worried that if I don't invite them it will cause real upset but then I think why worry when I don't see them...I just don't know how to deal with this and would love to know how anyone handled similar? Did anyone feel like as it is family it's wrong not to invite them?
thanks x