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katie1103
Beginner September 2012

how long.......

katie1103, 20 April, 2012 at 23:07 Posted on Planning 0 49

how long have you/were you with your oh half before your wedding??? Ive been with mr k for 6 years engaged for 4 years, my parents on the other have been together for 30 years still not married though !? xxx

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Latest activity by Little Miss Tweety, 21 April, 2012 at 21:21
  • SuperDuff
    Beginner November 2013
    SuperDuff ·
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    We have been together 3 and a bit years when we got engaged. By the time we're married, it will be nearly 5 years together.

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  • O
    Beginner August 2012
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    1st time we were together 2 years then got engaged. engaged for 2 more years then got married. This time we were together for 4 months then got engaged. have now been together 2 years and getting married later this year.

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  • S
    Beginner July 2013
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    Same as you katie_lou! We had been together 4 years when we got engaged and by the time we are married, we'll have been together 6 years Smiley laugh

    Interesting stats that I read in the metro the other day... something like the average for those who meet online to get engaged is 18 months, and for those who meet offline is about 4 years!

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  • *sweetpea*
    Beginner July 2012
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    OH and I did NOT meet online but were together less than 2 years when we got engaged and when we get married in July it will be around 2.5 years. When you know, you know!

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  • BlossomJ
    Beginner July 2014
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    We'll have been together for 6 years to the day when we get married ?

    We have been engaged since Valentines day 2011 so will have been engaged for over 3 years! But lots of things have got in the way and to have the date we wanted on a Saturday, gotta wait til 2014 anyway!

    We'll also have known each other for 11 years nearly when we get married as we became friends when we both started at the same secondary school ?

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  • O
    Beginner August 2012
    olderbride ·
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    i agree - when you know you know.......but we DID meet online!

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  • katie1103
    Beginner September 2012
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    Youngandinlove thats a lovely story ? i hated mr k when i first met him thought he was a sleeze lol we were friends for about a year before i gave in and went on a date with him x

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  • Sparkly Bride
    Beginner August 2012
    Sparkly Bride ·
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    We will have been together 12 years when we marry (well 11 years 11 months ).

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  • BlossomJ
    Beginner July 2014
    BlossomJ ·
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    Ahhh thank you ? and just said to H2B that we'll have known each other for half of our lives when we get married as will both be 22!!

    I fancied H2B all through school but always thought he was out of my league and then I moved away to Cyprus for 2 years and we chatted on the Internet and then when I came back we got together (although we had pretty much fallen for each other through the magic of the Internet ?.

    Thats funny haha ? H2B thought I was a squeaky, annoying "boff" when we first met, but we became good friends through the years before we finally ended up together!

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  • R
    Beginner August 2013
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    Just over 2 years from meeting to getting engaged. Will be 3 1/2 years by the time we marry.

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  • katie1103
    Beginner September 2012
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    I was 19 when i first met mr k very shy , never had a "proper boyfriend" he was the total opposite bit of a male tart, really loud kept calling me babe when he spoke to me which i really disliked, i jumped a mile when he put his hand on my backside when he was talking to me, i only gave him my phone number to get rid of him lol x

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  • BlossomJ
    Beginner July 2014
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    Haha you were the one that calmed him down then?? ? ?

    H2B was there for me when my ex was treating me like a dick, so he made himself look good ?

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  • ButterflyChild
    Beginner May 2013
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    We were together 3yrs when he popped the question....We've been together 6yrs this coming July and we're getting married next May - 2months before our 7th anniversary! Smiley smile

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  • Loopz
    Beginner March 2013
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    We will have been together 6 years this June. Got engaged after 5 years. It will be nearly 7 years when we get married next March. ?

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  • B
    Beginner November 2013
    Bathsheeba ·
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    We've been together just short of a year and a half, and we got engaged a year in. ❤️

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  • Kriek
    Beginner December 2012
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    We got engaged after nearly 4 years together and will have been together for 5 years when we get married.

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  • T
    Beginner June 2013
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    When we get married we will have been together 12 years and 364 days So that on our 13th anniversary I will wake up as mrs Taylor. We got engaged after 11 years 154 days but whoses counting!

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  • tybalt
    Beginner April 2012
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    Just under 5 years. We got engaged 4 and a half years in (and that was only after a bit of pressure!!)

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  • Pink Han-bag
    Beginner March 2013
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    We were together 3 months when we moved in together (I was also pregnant but unfortunately miscarried, hence the speed of move), 8 months when we got engaged and we'll have been together 15 months when we get married.

    When you know you know! We've both had long term relationships and I also have a son he's taken as his own, we're a great little family unit now Smiley smile

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  • A
    Beginner September 2012
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    Sorry about your loss ?

    OH and I have been together 7 years in May - we are getting wed in Sept! x

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  • Kylie541
    Beginner February 2013
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    We will have been together 20 months! I so far have loved every one of them.

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  • V
    Beginner June 2012
    Vicloveschocolate ·
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    We met in a nightclub 31 May 2005 (not that I actually remember meeting him!)

    We had our first date 2 June 2005

    We got engaged Xmas day 2005

    We get married on our 7 year anniversary on 2 June this year

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  • V
    Beginner April 2013
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    We've been together for nine years but knew from very early on that we'd grow old together. We use to watch old couples in cafes and say "that'll be us one day". We always had a plan, house first, then dog, then marriage, then kids. We're on track!!

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  • xMissyLoux
    Beginner September 2012
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    All my dates are at the bottom in my signature.

    I got with my OH when I was 17, it will be 7 years to the day this Monday.

    I NEVER EVER used to want to get married, so after about 8 months OH bought me a 'commitment' ring. As time went on things changed that I decided I did want to get married after all and OH proposed to me on VD 2 years ago.

    So we'll have been together for 7 years and 4 months when we tie the knot and been engaged for just over 2 and half years.

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  • honeysparkle
    Beginner June 2012
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    We will have been together 9years when we get married. only engaged 7mths but we have lived together for 6yrs had 2 children and brought a house in that time...just done eveything the wrong way round ?

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  • M
    Beginner May 2013
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    We will have been together 2 years on the day we get married, its actually our 2 year anniversary on our wedding day! (didnt realise the date until we'd booked and got back in the car to drive home)

    We DID meet online....thanks Match.com x

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  • 50's pin up bride
    Beginner July 2012
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    We met dancing in January 2008, and I was in the middle of a singe-and-loving-in phase, having plenty of fun flings and not looking for anything at all. He was a teenager anyway (albeit 19) and I was mid-20's, thought he was a show off and had a whole harem of young girls chasing him, but had fun dancing with him.

    I was 'flinging' someone else in the January, then another person in the Feb, and went on holiday with another in the March (I'm not a whore, honestly!) but by March we were flirting anyway and starting to meet up to practice dance. After my March-fling, I jokingly said to a friend, "Hmmm, who shall I have for my next fling?" and she suggested H2B. I laughed and said no, based on his age, but she pointed out age doesn't matter for a fling.

    So I turned up at his flat after a Burlesque rehearsal, still in 'uniform' (ie corset - his weakness) and that was that ? We got together 17th April 2008, got engaged 29th July 2011, and are getting married 21st July 2012 so we'll have been together 4 years and 3 months when we marry.

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  • cford09
    Beginner March 2013
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    We got engaged a year and a month after we got together and will have been together about 2 and a half years when we get married :-) sounds like a whirlwind but I know he's Mr Right and I can't wait to be his Mrs!

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  • venart
    Beginner June 2013
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    I've only lived in the UK 19 months, but have been with OH for 17 of them! We got engaged after being together for about 13 months, and will get married at the 2 1/2 year mark. We've finally passed the point where our engagement was set to be longer than we'd known each other so far Smiley smile

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  • Taylory
    Beginner July 2014
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    August the 12th we will have been together 6 years. When we get married we will have been together nearly 8 years.

    We got together on 12th aug 2006 and have a little girly who was born 16th june 2007. So as you can see we got pregnant very quickly but alls good Smiley smile x We also have a lad born march 2009 Smiley laugh

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  • porkchop
    Beginner September 2012
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    We'd been together 9 months when we got engaged, but talked about marriage almost from the start, like other have said when you know you know! We'd have been together 2 year and 2 weeks when we get married in September.

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  • Dana_leigh
    Beginner August 2013
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    We met online and got engages after 12 months of officially dating, but we spoke for 4 months online before that. We will have been together 3 years when we get married.

    I feel I got to know my OH loads more before we actually met as when you email etc you often say things its hard to say face to face, meaning you know a lot more a lot sooner I think.

    Anyhow as most of you have said, when you know, you know!

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