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AmyandRoss
Beginner March 2015

How long between getting engaged and your wedding date?

AmyandRoss, 6 April, 2014 at 18:10 Posted on Planning 0 63

Hiya,

How much time did you give yourselves between your other half popping the question and your future wedding date/ wedding day?

We have given ourselves 12 months. He proposed on the 29th March 2014 and we've booked the venue for the 27th March 2015.

Amy XxX

63 replies

Latest activity by Erin8, 8 April, 2014 at 21:37
  • ShropshireLass
    Beginner April 2014
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    Ah congratulations Smiley smile..., the 29th March is my sons birthday Smiley smile

    We got engaged on 14th May 2012 (OHs 30th bday), set the date July 2013 for wedding April 2104. So two years between engagement & wedding but 9 months planning.

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  • S
    Beginner September 2014
    SoontobeMrsR ·
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    My OH proposed on my birthday 03/02/13 and we are getting married 20/09/14. I can't wait!!

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  • AmyandRoss
    Beginner March 2015
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    Thank you. Awwww, only a few days away :-). Excited? Xx

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  • C
    Beginner August 2015
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    Oh proposed 25/12/10 getting married 01/08/15 so about 4.5 yrs.

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  • ShropshireLass
    Beginner April 2014
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    It's not really hit me that it's me getting married yet! I've been planning a wedding...doesn't feel like it mine! Probably won't until I'm stood outside the church in my big white dress ready to walk down the aisle!! Smiley smile

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  • Rach1971
    Beginner June 2015
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    Congratulations!! Smiley smile

    We got engaged on April 10th 2013 and are getting married June 2015.

    So just over 2 years for us

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  • Cat In A Teacup
    Beginner August 2015
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    It will be about 3 years for us. I hate that people always question why it is so long, grr!

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  • IGB2B
    Beginner May 2014
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    6 months. We got engaged right at the end of October 2013. We're getting married on 10th May 2014.

    Part of the reason for having a fairly short engagement was that we'd been talking about it for a looooong time so we already had lots of ideas. Also, my sister is terminally ill and I want her to be my bridesmaid, so we needed to do it quickly! And thirdly, my fiancé is in the army and financially there are many advantages to being married so it just made sense to get on with it.

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  • S
    Beginner July 2015
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    Got engaged May 2013 and getting married July 2015. We wanted enough time to save up for it Smiley smile

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  • I-go-by-many-names
    Super April 2015
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    2 years and 10 months for us. Like others have said it's really annoying how people assume you're marrying quite quickly or look at you weirdly when you say you've booked your venue with 2 1/2 years to go.

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  • pammy67
    Beginner April 2015
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    About 18 months for us Smiley smile

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  • InkedDoll
    VIP January 2015
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    20 months for us. Before my H2B proposed we had talked about the idea of getting married on my 40th birthday, so that's the only thing that dictated it really. If it hadn't been for that I think I'd have wanted to do it faster!

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  • lm1985
    Beginner September 2016
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    Congratulations on your engagement. I got engaged 27 December 2013 but not getting married until 10 September 2016 (which is my late nan's birthday as sadly she lost her battle with cancer last year and it is so she can be with me) so 29 months until the special day have booked church and venue already though

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  • pink & glitz
    Beginner August 2014
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    1 year x

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  • kharding2014
    Beginner October 2014
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    20 months for us. I think we would have done it sooner but we needed to save for the day.

    In hindsight I wish I'd scaled down the wedding and done it sooner as I just want to be married already!

    X

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  • LoveIsEasy
    Beginner May 2015
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    We got engaged 25/12/13 and we're getting married 24/5/2015. I had an idea what time of year I wanted the wedding to be (springtime) and 2014 wouldn't have given us enough time to plan and save up. The date was picked because it's a bank holiday weekend before school holidays which we needed as I work in a school.

    My SIL to be got engaged on her birthday last month and has booked the wedding for this December because they didn't want to hang around too long, they're only having a small wedding (30ish people) so don't need to save too much and they didn't want to go for early next year as they thought it was too close to our wedding (which we weren't bothered about, we're just happy to have another family celebration)

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  • B
    Beginner June 2015
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    2 years (almost exactly to the day) for us. I would have liked to have done it quicker but the venue that I fell in love with was totally booked up for this summer, and knowing that I wanted a summer saturday we decided to wait another year and have the day we wanted rather than compromising on season

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  • S
    Beginner April 2014
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    Three and a half months for me. We got engaged on New Year's Day and getting married in 10 days time! Didn't really want a long engagement, and it's been plenty long enough for us to get everything arranged.

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  • ClaireD*
    Beginner May 2014
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    2 years 2 months.

    Completely ignored the whole idea of arranging a wedding for ages after we got engaged.

    And then a whole year later we were prodded into action when we realised newly-engaged people were setting dates and booking venues. It made us pull our fingers out and get round to starting the ball rolling.

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  • MrsWendy2016
    Beginner April 2016
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    We had 2 and a half years between our engagement date and our wedding date. We're now just under two years away! We were limited by school holidays as I am a teacher, so pipped for April as it fall within the Easter holidays (we hope anyway!).

    xxx

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  • MrsScott2be2018
    Beginner September 2018
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    5 years between engagement and wedding together for 8 years by the time we are married

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  • FHB
    Beginner March 2014
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    He proposed in May 2012 and we are getting married April 2014 so 23 months. I was a bit relaxed about the process to be honest. My friend got engaged the same week as me and she went in to full organising mode...i just enjoyed being engaged for a while and telling people I was in no rush.

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  • Trish2014
    Beginner June 2014
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    18 months for us. We did originally consider getting married last September which would have been 9 months but we didn't find a nice venue in time with the dates we needed spare, plus I was enjoying the planning too much to give it up too soon!

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  • sarah1976
    Savvy September 2016
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    21 years.. Yep, you read it right, 21 years!

    It was me who asked him to marry me on a drunken night out in 1995. we'd been together for nearly 4 years at this point. We had an engagement party and everything, but no wedding ever got planned!

    We've now decided to get married on the 3rd of September 2016 as we'll have been together for 25 years (and 2 days) on that date.

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  • Charb4990
    Beginner September 2015
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    3 years and 1 day!

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  • miss pickle
    Beginner June 2014
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    We gave ourselves about the same; we got engaged on June 17th 2013 and are getting married on June 7th 2014 ;-)

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    19 months and 6 days Smiley winking

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  • xoxoxo2017
    Beginner May 2017
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    20 months, with 16 to go Smiley smile

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  • AmyandRoss
    Beginner March 2015
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    I'm enjoying getting to know everyone a little more.

    Wow 21 years! It's great that you're getting married on such a memorable date for you both.

    Xx

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  • LittleSnowflake
    Beginner January 2016
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    Ooh congrats! We got engaged 14th February 2014 and getting married in 2016 just so we have over a year to find ourselves a place to live :]

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  • yorkshirekiwi
    Beginner August 2014
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    He originally proposed Feb 2007 (I said no, but we'd only met 2 weeks prior to that!)

    Second proposal was December 2010 (I had a long wait between the first and second date)

    Original Wedding set for September 2012 (we had to cancel as we had emigrated and had visa restrictions preventing us changing our marital status)

    Revised Date set for 30 August 2014. Wedding planning in full swing!!!

    THEN we learned that we can't meet the residency requirements to legally marry in the UK, but all of our venue and flight bookings had been made. So now we're having a pre-wedding blessing on the set date (in my heart this is my wedding day, in my home town with family and friends) but.....

    We still don't have a date to make it legal!

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    Beginner November 2014
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    We got engaged 22nd December 2013 and are getting married 1st November 2014 so a little over 10 months.

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