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lovelygirl
Beginner August 2011

How often do you change your mind?

lovelygirl, 10 November, 2010 at 18:08 Posted on Planning 0 13

How often do you change your mind on things you have already bought? At the moment i am umming and ahhing about buying another tiara as not sure i like the one i already bought on ebay.... Is it a waste of money or will it make me happier? aaah hmm oh well will keep umming and ahhing just hope i do not buy too many things in duplicate!

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Latest activity by SoontobeMrsSSmith, 11 November, 2010 at 10:40
  • loopyloo80
    Beginner May 2012
    loopyloo80 ·
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    LOL I only been engaged! a couple weeks and already I had colours and themes and already I changed them My Hubbie (its a renewal though most people dont know!) is oblivious and will do what I say Smiley laugh but I have changed venues I love (and can afford) and dresses adn BM colours a few times

    Useless me!

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  • MrsCJ
    Beginner July 2011
    MrsCJ ·
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    I feel I am not right in the head the amount of times I change my mind!! The only costly change i've made is the honeymoon but Thomas Cook waivered the change fee. But I am now wanting to change the invites and Thank you cards but I have already bought all I need!! Jeez. I think the key is to stop looking ?

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  • SarinaCain
    Beginner March 2011
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    Yup all the time. Lately its wether the Tiara I bought looks too cheap and if I should wear the Diamante necklace and earings I bought or would they be too much. Everyone is saying I should letthe dress stand out. But I love the bling...its just me lol

    I still havnt decided.

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  • lovelygirl
    Beginner August 2011
    lovelygirl ·
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    Well just checked back on ebay and it looks like the tiara i was eying up is going to go for silly money which means at least for now i am sticking with the one i already have Smiley smile decision made - for now....

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    yorkiebride ·
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    Far too often and it drives OH mad! - particularly when I change it back again! ?

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  • Shnarfy1
    Beginner November 2010
    Shnarfy1 ·
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    I'm such an indecisive person, I'm forever returning things to shops and getting upset because I'm not sure if I like something any more. I ended up changing my colour scheme less than a fortnight before my wedding!

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    Beginner April 2011
    Angelgirlie ·
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    Luckily the only thing I have changed my mind about is the favour boxes so I sold those and got the amount I paid for them so that was good, no money lost on those! I am sure I will start changing my mind once it gets closer!

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  • miss.understood
    Beginner February 2011
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    So far....I can honestly say that I/We haven't changed our minds on anything........but there's 6 months to go lol

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  • Kooks
    Beginner September 2011
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    I've been pretty good so far but I keep looking even though I've bought stuff which is a BAD idea. It helps to show people I think and have reassurance that it all looks nice!

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  • Little Madam
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    Little Madam ·
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    I change my mind on things all the time - I'm awful, one moment it's a "must have" for me, next moment i hate it...

    BUT, with the wedding i've only brought things that i'm 100% sure on, and i've made sure that I don't look again. Especially with the big stuff like wedding dresses, I am a bad hitcher and try to avoid looking for too long/commenting on some dresses - Laura SJs, SionR's, sidney (I think).

    The only thing i've changed my mind on yet is whether or not to have a videographer, and luckily all I had to do was to book one!

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  • BumbleBrat
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    At the mo, for me, it's the table name holders. Think I will buy some more.. and try to sell the 12 I already have!

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  • Vikster79
    Beginner July 2011
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    Haa haa i often wonder if im normal the amount of times i think i have seen something better, got on a completely different universe of thinking and come 360 back to my original thoughts! It happens daily, but i dont tend to do anything about it i just have a word with myself and sanity is restored. ? To be honest i cant wait till i dont have to trawl the internet looking for table decorations and thank you cards... lol

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    Somethings I am changing my mind on daily, and others I'm just in a fustrated basis of not being able to find what I want.

    But I've sorted out all the main things.

    I'm finding the biggest problem which causes so many mind changes is the sheer commercialisation of the wedding industry. In general they are producing bland and feelingless products. So I have to keep taking their basic ideas, thinking about it, changing my mind a few times and then either making it ourselves or getting someone else to make it.

    We need more small companies and more old fashioned traditional craftspeople!

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