How often do you have sex?

Normally about 3/4 times a week. But as we're trying for another baby its every day during the first part of my cycle

Approx 3 times a week

I can't remember ?

Not as often as we should to be honest.

See I'm worried because we used to be at it like rabbits, but recently (last month or so) it has been once a week if we're lucky. Nothing drastic has changed in our lives, like new jobs or anything. And we aren't stressed.

ETA - I'm not worried as in loosing sleep over it, but I was just thinking about it this morning.

Ditto. Although I actually think I'm the problem in that I I can pretty much link the change to when we found out dad was ill and funnily enough I was only thinking about it earlier too! I'm starting to think I'm going to have to do something about it. Sorry hope not TMI!

Depends on what time the month it is. We're ttcing and so for the first couple of weeks of the cycle we're dtd every 1-2 days, then for the 2nd part of the cycle after ov we rarely dtd.

Before we were ttcing it was probably once a week but mainly because H has a pretty stressful and tiring job.

OLL & Dec we went through this a while back, it was my fault tho as I just couldnt be arsed with it for a few months, I just didnt feel sexy - OH is always up for it

So I decided to take a look at myself - I listed what I really didnt like about my body and what I did like ... I surprised myself with a lot of things, like, I thought my boobs were horrendously huge, I thought my legs were stumpy etc but looking at myself in the mirror I couldnt see any of these faults......But what I really noticed was a lack of confidence in my facial expression, I looked pained!! - from then on I really felt more attractive, I forgot about my stumpy legs and boobs etc it sounds so weird, but it has really worked for me - It made a diffence in how I feel about my body ( Fluffy bit over now)

Says is a Fat B*stard voice " I'm dead sexy now, look at my sexy body"

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If H could have his way it'd be more than 7!

Honestly, it's about 3/4. I have a very low libido, always have done and so I could go with much less and not be fussed. ?

And you class that as LOW libido?!?!?!

Depends on the confectionary available ?

In all honesty, on average, 3/4 times a week. Sometimes its more, sometimes its less.

Lol, I didn't say I was up for it that often! Muchos thinking of England going on and combating H's stressiness if he doesn't get it much. I'm aware that's not entirely healthy.

2-3 times a week on average.

3-4 times a week, sometimes more.

God you lot are rampant!

We both work in the city and dont get home until around 7.30, when we get in we both run (training for a marathon in September) then i study (doing exams in November) then its bed time and we are too bloody knackered/lazy for a bit of hows your father!!

Id say at the moment once or twice a week at most

WSS. ?

I hope some of this is down to youthful exuberance / early relationship lust [old fogey icon]

My thoughts exactly!

That's why I said penetration, because if "other things" were included, then I don't think we do too bad! Lol.....when we're knackered it is usually, "shall we do ourselves or each other?!"

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To be honest sometimes I just want a nice hot bath and then to go to sleep! That sounds awful doesn't it.

Not as often as we should to be honest, maybe once or twice a week

Girls take some advice form an oldie, and get it whenever you can, was going to say lap it up but thought better of it ?. It is 7 years since me and Mr M last partook and it's bloody hard (well not as the case may be) so enjoy it and make the most of what you have xx

I'm 38, mum of 3 ages 3-20 and grandmother of one.

I have to say sex has got much better since I got a bit older. Dh would say that's down to him as we've been together 3.5 years now (married 2 months!) but I think it's to do with age!

Dh and I often joke that we'll still be up for it 3 times a week when we're 80 lol.

Not quite 7 years, but probably as many times a year as most of the previous posters say a week!

When I was in my yoff, it'd be numerous times a day. <sigh> .. the memories!

I think these threads always offer a dreadfully skewed perspective, as only those at it like bunnies actually respond ?

I did wonder this!

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Ss

Rarely. I get paranoid about it sometimes but H has said to me that he doesn't feel he needs to initiate as it's been x weeks since the last time like he used to with his ex and if he wasn't happy/didn't want to be where he is he wouldn't go to sleep cuddling me every night (I'm usually fast asleep when he comes to bed).

I've talked about it with friends and it seems we've all hit this lull in our mid twenties and it's normal to us. Being on the pill doesn't help either as it's totally killed any libido I once had - here's hoping being off it changes all that!

T and I are shameful of late. For the last good few months we have only been doing it on Saturday or Sunday morning. We are only 22 and 24! It's abominable really. We also used to be constantly at it, I think it started to go downhill after we moved in together and I started piling on the flab ? something to do with not feeling very sexy, like Saracroft said. T on the other hand is constantly up for it, so have been speaking about how we can sort it out.

<TMI> That said, I woke up this morning with the right horn, and haven't been able to shake it off all day, so it might be game on later ? <TMI>

Ahem!

That must be a really difficult part of your H being ill - I know sex is only one part of a marriage but still ?

Once or twice a week probably, seeing as someone commented about those who were at it like bunnies would be the only responders. When we were TTCing we managed near enough every day, sometimes more than once, for nearly a month.

Now, I'm yawning by 8:00 and asleep by 10:00 so it's back to how it was before at the moment and likely to become less in the short term at least. And probably in the long term from what I hear. Oh well.

Mumsie ? - although as I think my dad has the same condition as your husband you'll forgive me if I don't think about it too much I'm sure!