Hi all!
Just in the first stages of planning and I decided to start what I thought was going to be a fun bit of planning - the guest list! Hitched even has a fun little widget to build one! So, I sat here and started putting in everyone's details. It was great, for about the first day. Today though I hit a snag - my huge family.
Let me give you a little background. I am the first child of a second marriage. My mum was 28, my dad was 60. No, that isn't a typo. He was sixty. His first marriage ended in a divorce - and my four elder half siblings. In all honesty after my father died I haven't seen much of any of them. We all live in the same town and unless I go out of my way I wouldn't see them at all. They're friendly enough when I do see them - but I don't have any phone numbers for any of them, let alone addresses, and we keep in contact through Facebook. Three of them I haven't spoken to, let alone seen, in two years.
So, I really don't know how I feel about inviting them. And if I invite one, do I invite them all, plus all their children, plus their children's children? It's going to put me well over numbers, and probably stop me inviting my friends purely for budgetary reasons. And how to I stop it being taken as an insult if I invite one, and not another? xx