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Beginner December 2008

Husband rant £$$%@*****

GMT, 27 July, 2009 at 10:54 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 8

I have a silk Monsoon dress. It is supposed to be dry cleaned, but if you're careful you can get away with gentle handwashing, or simply sponging it. ....

Husband: Is that dress hanging there waiting for a wash?

Me: Yes, I'm going to hand wash it as it's delicate, and supposed to be dry cleaned.

Husband: I'll do it for you when I do my hand-wash shirts.

Me: No thanks, I'll do it, it doesn't need detergent and I'd rather do it. I don't mind doing your shirts for you, if you like.

Some time later, I walked along the landing and saw my dress had gone. I went downstairs and heard the washing machine in spin dry mode (overdrive!). Yes, you've guessed it, he'd ignored me completely and having washed the dress by hand (in detergent, which it hadn't needed) put it in the washing machine on the spin cycle.

I took it out, mouthing very rood words. I rinsed it in cool water (it had got hot in the machine - wail) and hung it over the bath do rip dry. When husband came home I told him I'd nearly had heart failure when I realised what he'd done with the dress. "It's delicate and is supposed to by dry cleaned, that's why I was going to CAREFULLY rinse it and dry it. By hand," I said, trying to be reasonable.

"But what harm could it do, I only put it on the spin cycle?" he said.

"It's not supposed to go near a machine, it's delicate and even hand washing might not do the best job," I said.

"But I only put it on the spin cycle, that surely won't harm it, what's the problem?"

I tried to explain that silk fibres are more delicate and that heat from machine spinning can damage the fibres ...

"But I only put it on the spin cycle," he repeated.

"I expect it will be all right," I muttered. And he didn't even apologise.

Dress is now dry but looking very crinkly in the bodice. I'm hoping it's ok and will smooth out with a bit of careful pressing.

DOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Latest activity by eponymous, 27 July, 2009 at 12:28
  • Amethyst
    Beginner October 2010
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    Hope it's ok. Sounds as if it will be. My OH machine washed a dry clean only silk dress of mine last week - I had told him I was going to handwash it. I was a bit shocked when I saw it drying but it was OK! He does do the vast majority of the clothes washing though so I usually just let him get on with it ...

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  • spacecadet_99
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    I'd be pretty angry about that TBH, you told him enough times. I guess it's lesson learnt that you won't leave it where he can find it again. Hope your dress is OK.

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  • Luthien
    Beginner June 2007
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    This is a row I have had so many times with Mr L. - I actually almost added it to the 'what do you and your H row about?' thread.

    I lost it so badly after wondering why Mr L. had hung a misshapen burgundy flannel on the line (not to mention where the heck he'd got if from) only to find it was my beautiful cashmere jumper, that we now have separate wash baskets and he is not allowed anywhere near mine.

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  • GMT
    Beginner December 2008
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    Yikes! No wonder you were cross!

    I feel a bit better that it isn't just me being unreasonable (I know he was just trying to help) but why won't he just listen to what I'm saying and accept it rather than always having to know better? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

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  • Daffy B
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    Oh I'm so sorry, I hope it's washed alright. I would be incredibly angry if I was in your position, I don't know how you stayed so calm. My dad has washed things of mine that I've asked him not to and I cried for ages!

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    My mother in law sometimes offers to do some washing and ironing for us but now she only gets given the bedding. Everything she took to wash got tumble dried and then ironed on the outside, so most of my jumpers and trousers got binned bacuse they had shruck or were shiny.

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  • POD
    Beginner November 2003
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    Hello loofy loo.

    this is something MrP and I row about often. He has a disastrous history with my clothes. I've told these stories before but he has:

    Thrown out a carrier bag with brand new bought that day clothes in. He threw them out just before the bins were collected so there were never seen again. Despite it being over 6 years ago I still get angry thinking about

    Shrunk a whole washing machine load of my jumpers so small I gave them to my friends daughter. the wool had tightened up so much she couldn't bend her arms even though they were the perfect size for her.

    Shrunk my favourite top, panicked when he realised and tried to stretch it. Tore it in half

    I was about to put a load of my whites on. Asked if he could throw in a few of his work shirts. One shirt had a black ink pen in the pocket. Ink over everything.

    There are more. I think I hyper ventilate when I see him near my washing now so he is more cautious.

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  • S
    Beginner June 2008
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    Mr Star has gone to work today with glittery trousers because he put his t-shirt with a green glitter logo in with the dark wash yesterday!!!

    Karma- oh yes!

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  • eponymous
    Beginner January 2008
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    Just before we got married (roughly a week before I think) we lived in the hotel that Mr E worked at and had to use the industrial machines in the laundry to wash our clothes. This was fine as long as great care was taken when selecting cycles.

    I came home from visiting a friend at 8pm one evening to find that in a fit of genius (Mr E's exact word choice) he had put all of our clothes in to wash together as an experiment. I do mean all of our clothes. He wanted to see if he could fit them all in one machine and was delighted when he could. Not only had he put whites, colours, delicates, woolens etc all in together he had chosen the 90 degree wash with bleach used for washing the chefs' whites. Three hours later all of our clothes emerged smelling of bleach and most of them were an interesting shade of marbled green.

    He is not allowed near our laundry and learned a very expensive lesson that day! I can't quite explain the rage I felt. He's never ever been that stupid again.

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