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Red Kite, 11 December, 2013 at 10:29 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 34

OK, so this is an odd thing to be proud of but I bit the bullet and sorted out my unworn wedding dress. It had been sat in my friend's wardrobe and I knew it couldn't stay there. Everyone kept telling me to leave it until it was easier to deal with, but I don't think it was ever going to be an easy thing to deal with. Also I decided to try and recoup some money - given that it has never been worn, and sell it. I didn't want to have to go the ebay etc route as I didn't want to have to see people trying it on, so I contacted the shop I brought it from and they directed me to a shop that sold all their ex-samples etc. Long and short of it is that 'my' dress is now being sold at the shop and if they find a buyer I get a percentage of the sale price. I could probably get more selling it myself but thisway is hassle free.

I'm proud of myself for just doing it - it couldn't stay at my friend's house and even if I ever do get married in the future there is no way I'd want to wear it. I hope it makes some girl's day and brings them a bit more happiness and luck than I have had!

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Latest activity by *J9*, 12 December, 2013 at 10:51
  • OB
    Beginner January 2011
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    I don't know what to say, but I'm sending you a big cuddle. Well done for being so strong and brave. Xx

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  • ATB
    Beginner August 2014
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    Well done you, that was a brave step. Agree that it is easier this way than having to sell it yourself privately. I'm sure it will indeed make some girl's day. xx

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  • ebony_rose
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    That must have been hard, but well done, and (((hugs))) for doing it.

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    Oh, RK. Well done. I'm tearing up xxx

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  • Red Kite
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    Thanks all. I feel alright about it now. I think the wedding seems more like a day dream I once had? I guess because he was so unwell for a lot of the planning it always felt a bit surreal and like it might not happen anyway. The only thing that still connects me to it is random items around the house and this forum! LOL.

    As an update he is currently doing quite well and has been able to get a bit of mobility back with a frame (go physio team!). He tends to have the odd active day and then it wipes him out for 2-3 days after, but it's good to see him getting a bit of quality back because last week he was sleeping so so much (some drugs are amazing). He came home for a visit at the weekend and was able to see the cats and just be in the house. It wasn't for very long but it was enough. That made me very teary and obviously he didn't want to leave, but I'm just so pleased we have had the opportunity to let him see the house again. I constantly feel like we're on egg shells waiting for something to change but am hoping we can get christmas together. I didn't think we would be still here in December so that alone is positive.

    Hugs all round! xx

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  • Pompey
    Beginner June 2012
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    Well done. You are so so brave and I have so much love and respect for you right now.

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  • Mrs_imp
    Beginner June 2012
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    What a huge brave step RK, you're being so strong. Hugs to you.

    I'm glad mr RK is getting some more quality and us sometines more active. How lovely that he was able to come home and spend time with you and the cats. I hope you get your Christmas together.xx

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    I imagine that must have been very hard to do. I think you are amazing. (Hug)

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  • Nutella
    Beginner March 2013
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    Huge hugs RK [hugs] I haven't been around as much but from what I've seen you are such an admiration, so brave xxx

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  • BertB
    Beginner July 2013
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    Such a big and brave step to take, well done. Must have been very diffficult for you. x

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  • AmnesiaCustard
    Beginner June 2011
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    Well done RK. And glad to hear your update on MrRK. x

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    That must have been so hard for you.... You're so brave. As everyone else has said you really are amazing and so strong. Sending you lots of weird Internet hugs xxx

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  • SallyLou
    Beginner August 2014
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    I can't begin to imagine how hard that was, well done you.

    Glad you got to spend some time with Mr RK at home, and he saw the cats. Fingers crossed for Christmas.

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  • Ali_G
    Beginner October 2012
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    Oh, RK, big big hugs.

    I admire you for your strength and courage.

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
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    What a brave thing to do ? it must have been so hard

    Glad to hear the update on Mr RK

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  • Ixia
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    Well done RK ?

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  • lil_2014
    Beginner July 2014
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    I am quite new on your story and dabbled about replying or not but couldn't read and run.

    You are truly an inspiration.

    Nice to hear about Mr RK, and wishing you a very nice Xmas together.

    Lots of kisses and hugs.

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  • Tiny-Tiggs
    Beginner April 2012
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    Well done RK. You're a brave, strong lady x

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  • Tizzie
    Beginner June 2012
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    Oh RK, that is so incredibly brave of you. I can't imagine how you are feeling and what you are both going through. I hope you have a lovely Christmas together. Lots of hugs and love xx

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
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    Well done, RK. It must have taken some doing. I hope you manage to get Christmas together, I will be thinking of you.

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    I can't imagine how difficult that must have been but well done for doing it, I am completely in awe of how brave and strong you are. I hope more than anything you get to spend Christmas with Mr RK x

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  • *Pugsley*
    Beginner March 2014
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    RK, you really are such an amazing woman.

    You should be so proud of yourself.

    Sending you and Mr RK hugs xx

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  • Cat In A Teacup
    Beginner August 2015
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    Your courage and bravery astounds me, you are a remarkable woman.

    Thinking of you often and sending you hugs xxx

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  • Twiga
    Beginner April 2012
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    This is a massive step and it must have been very hard. I'm really thinking of you and sending you much love. I hope your H continues to have his good days and that you can enjoy some wonderful quality time with each other ? You're an inspiration.

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    Frick RK you really are incredible. Everytime I read a post from you Im astonished at how amazing you are. This is a really big step and you should be proud. I'm glad Mr RK was well enough for a visit home and is getting around and that you are getting to spend time with him. Always thinking of you x

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    RK I don't think I would cope as well as you in the same situation. You're such a strong lady. Glad that Mr RK is having good days so you can have time together x

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  • leni-lw!
    Beginner November 2011
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    Big hugs to you rk, xx

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    What a big step to make RK hope you are feeling okay. I hope it sells quickly and I am sure it will make someone very happy. Lots more otter love as always x

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  • *Carole*
    Beginner August 2007
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    Sorry I don't know your story, but it sounds like you are going through a very tough time xxx

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  • *J9*
    VIP March 2014
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    I'm not really a regular over here and I don't know much about your story but just wanted to say how brave I think you are, you're truly an inspiration. Stay strong and I hope you get Christmas together

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