Hey all.
Sorry if this -' are you changing your name' has been done to death but me and the H2B had a fall out over the weekend when I mentioned I wont be changing my name. He reacted in a way that I never would have anticipated - he was completely devastated and I thought he was going to cry! I had no idea it would mean that much to him. I LOVE my current surname and since my younger brother died last year - I feel like I will be losing one of the ties I had to him and I am also the only one to carry it on now. Also my H2B's surname sounds very similar to my first name and together they sound horrible. I don't see why it is automatically assumed the woman will change her name. When I suggested he take mine, he thought it was ridiculous and hilarious, its such a double standard.
Also all of my family agree I should change it (which I am really shocked about as they are not traditional at all). No one I have spoken to sees it from my side. I suppose ultimately I will have to change it as I want to make him happy.
Has anyone had a similar situation? did anyone keep their name and what did your OH think? Just after some impartial opinions.
Thanks. xx