I have seriously had enough

Oh. Thats not the best of starts to your weekend. Did he give any explanation as to why he went out? why he didnt keep in contact with you? why did someone hit him??

I dont blame you for feeling the way you do. The man you are about to marry shouldnt be going AWOL under any conditions, pretty irresponsible in my opinion..

if my hubby did that to me he would get the bollocking to last a life time, hell, I would too if roles were reversed.

Maybe thats what you need to do, teach him a lesson. Go off to a friends for a whole day and a night out and come home pissed..... let him see how he likes it!

Oh that's awful I don't know what to say hun he's seriously out of order!!

Sorry to hear that. That is def one stress you don't want! But a black eye can be make-up fixed

? Maybe going out and drinking was his way of venting off some of the wedding stress - I agree with you that it isn't the way he should have done it, but maybe he just needed some "him" time before the parents came and everything started.

Nothing to do with wedding stress he can be a real t**t when he chooses, I just thought that we were past this, clearly not.

As for the eye it is horrendous, swollen and dark purple, im just not sure that I can forgive him this time, he ruins everything.

That's very immature of him & he obviously has little regard for your (as in both of you not just you) special day that is OMG so close! If you seriously mean it you I think you still need time to calm down & not make a rash decision do you have a close friend you could vent to?

OMG that is so inconsiderate. You definitely need to talk this out with him before the wedding x

I hope that you can fix this x

How childish!!! you really need to have a serious one 2 one with him honey. hope you get it sorted xxx ? ?

What on earth happened for him to get a black eye? If my OH got a black eye right before our wedding he'd be best off hiding or else I'd be giving him another black eye to match!

I'd be livid as well and would be wanting answers as to why he didn't get in touch especially why 2 days before the wedding he felt it nessary to do such a childish thing by not contacting you and what the hell happened to his eye.

Has he even said sorry?

Do you really want to call it all off though?

Hugs xx

I can totally see where your coming from!! you need to talk to someone about it and sort it out soon as possible! Has he apologised or anything?

Hope your sort it out soon. I'm sure you can.

P xx

I would have given him a second black eye by now!

That is shocking!

What did he have to say for himself?

You really need to talk to him.

And the other thing is... and I know this is harsh... but you need to not let the fact that your wedding is two days away come into your decision.

Is he willing to change? Black eyes will fade, but can you accept this behaviour for the rest of your life? If so, then you are a better woman than I am.

Good luck in sorting it out and I genuinely hope you do.

I am so sorry this has happened so near to your big day. I hope you can sort it out with him, "What a pillock"!

Jeez! How irresponsible of him. Has he explained himself? Maybe he just needed to let off some steam before the big day.....but to contact you.....personally I'd be boloocking him to within an inch of his life!

hope you get it sorted.

x

Ah babe, thats really selfish.... not sticking up for him in the slightest but maybe he has wedding nerves? Still no excuse I would kick my H2Bs ass if he did that to me.

Let us know how you get on.

XX

Oh god what anightmare!!! i totally feel for you huni.... been there, done that, wore the t-shirt.

whatever you decide - it has to be for you and not because of the pressure of the wedding. big hugs xxxx

Oh love. That's awful - I'd be so mad. If you are speaking to him by now, Jumbly Boy (who's always bruised because of rugby) has said get him put ice on it then follow up with witch hazel to draw the bruise out and aloe vera to help with healing. Then he'll probably have to get himself down to Boots to get some colour match foundation and you'd better tell the bestman so that he can mention the fact that he's wearing make up and everyone can rip into him to suitably punish him for being such a d*ckhead.

I really hope you guys and chat about it and sort things out. Sounds like a lot of unnecessary stress right now. Poor lamb! I feel for you.

Only you know if this is due to wedding nerves or will continue afterwards, personally I couldn't marry someone if I thought they would behave like this after the wedding, but that is entirely down to you. Don't let the fact it is only 2 days away affect your decision, better before than after

Oh dear, thats awful... here have a ?....to his defense....maybe he got the black eye defending your honour? Anyhow, I'd still probably would give him another black eye to match.....hang in there kiddo xxx

Hope you're ok I would have killed him by now. has his black eye started to go down? has he explained what happened?

big hugs

Good advice from Jumbly.

what a nightmare, sorry this happened to you so close to the big day hope you sort it out and make the right decisions. my OH would be in serious trouble xxx

Oh hun, that's awful... but remember sometimes things happen for a reason. Whether it is to test the strength of your relationship or simply your resolve, whichever, only you have the answer inside you.. I honestly hope he has explained himself by now and you two made up. Let us know how you got on...

Lots of love xoxoxooxx

Thank you ladies for you very kind words, we have talked and he knows he has to stop behaving like this, he has apologised to me, the kids and my mum and dad. He best mate called me (he wasn't with him) and we had a good chat, and he did the same to OH. He does seem genuinely sorry.

He has asked for one last chance........again, so I am going to sleep on it and see if i can get passed being this angry.

Thanks again xxx

At least he has apologised. But don't let that cloud your judgement, follow your heart. How is his face looking? Are you okay? Sod him, he's not the one we're bothered about.

Grrr for you hon!!

Why do men always think they can push the limits?

Don't put up with it hon! Im glad you sat down and had a word! Its a nerve racking time as it is you really don't need this rigt now and he needs to understand that.

Hugs

P,.s Get a hunk of fresh meat on that eye!!

xx