I literally have no where else to go and to ask about this
first off
me and my fiancé live together and work together. It's a big company so we're not by each other's sides constantly. We always give each other space and both have opposite sex friends, no problem. Never any jealously at all.
in April a bunch of new people started. One included a young 20 yr old who happens to live around the corner from us!
when she started she kept sending my fiancée (who is a supervisor) private messages on fb about work stuff but I told him that's a bit inappropriate. But as time went on they seemed to get closer and closer. My fiancé was constantly on his phone so I couldn't see the screen (but I saw he was messaging her) and then they arranged a trip to a theme park with a couple more people. I HATE rides so I obviously wouldn't go. So she picked him up and it was just the two of them in the car. The park closes at 5. She dropped him off at MIDNIGHT!! I was in tears.
after this they arrange a day in town to "go drinking" and I thought no way am I not going! They were talking more and more in private. I tried to befriend her at work but it was obviously she was being really sneaky. We had to meet her at the train station. Suddenly my fiance has mobile number despite telling me he didn't (and she's written under cute nick name) we were at the station holding hands, when he saw her he literally threw my hand and ran over to her. It was awful. They chatted all day having a great time. Then my fiancé starts making these comments about flirting and saying txt messages could be seen as worse as they are. Which I thought was odd. Then I see "snapchat" on his phone which I didn't even know he had. The whole list of names was hers, only her he's sent photos to! And I just exploded. I went mad saying I would never dream of coming home at midnight with another man, how he's making a fool out of me etc etc. I pulled her to one side and explained calmly how I felt. My fiancé admitted they had sent flirty txts to each other but wouldn't tell me what.
i thought that was it. Then suddenly they arrange ANOTHER trip to the theme park!! Only three of them went. Again she picked him up and dropped him off at midnight.
Ive told him countless times how I feel. I've been in tears. I haven't been eating or sleeping. Their faces light up at work when they see each other. Other ppl have noticed her flirting. Rumors are goin around about them. Which I've told my fiancé. She's SO nice to me and it's so fake I want to strangle her.
They are currently arranging ANOTHER day out!!!!
I don't know know what to do anymore.
My my fiancée thinks I'm some jealous psycho. But I'm not jealous, I just can't believe what they are doing. I feel like they are laughing at me. He sits next to me turned away talking to her on Facebook.