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essexmum
Beginner August 2009

IABU/WWYD? Teachers in particular.

essexmum, 3 June, 2009 at 22:07 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 8

My son came home from school today and he was holding his right arm strangly and when I questioned him he said it was a little bit sore. It transpires that he had fallen off/pushed off the climbing frame and landed on his arm, when he mentioned it to an adult he was told to just rest it for a few minutes. However when I looked closely at his arm I could clearly see that even just bending it was causing him great discomfort. I tried ringing NHS direct for advice (I got the recorded message saying they were too busy and to call back later). I also tried to ring my local Dr's surgery and got nowhere fast either. So I took him to our local minor injuries unit and they assessed him and told me that although his arm was not broken he had badly strained it. They've put his arm in a sling and told me to give him calpol and make sure he tries to move it as much as possible so it doesn't stiffen up. He's also got his year 6 residental trip on Sunday so I'm hoping it recovers enough for him to take part im most of the activites next week.

My reason for this post is I am looking for a little persective on the situation. My first thought is to go into the school tomorrow morning and speak to the head about how unhappy I am with the way they handled the situation. Not only did the adult in charge not properly assess his arm, but I wasn't made aware of it (I'm not expecting a phone call but I am normally made aware of a little graze or scrape by way of a note in their book bags). IABU in expecting even a note in this instance? Should I say something or just let it slide? am i just being an over-protective mum and making a mountain out of a molehole

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Latest activity by Saphira, 4 June, 2009 at 13:35
  • Lumpy Golightly
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    Lumpy Golightly ·
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    Nope, you're not BU. Not sure how old your son is but I know that where I work all injuries are dealt with by the nurse or a first aider and letters go home, and they're secondary school aged.

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  • essexmum
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    Thanks for the reply. He's 11 and in year 6 of primary school.

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  • Saphira
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    Hi

    I'm a KS2 teacher (usually Y5). I do think you need to mention it to the school, but there are a couple of things I'd be interested to know. When did the incident happen? Was it at lunchtime? If so did he mention it to anyone else as the afternoon wore on?

    I have been confronted by very cross parents a number of times about injuries which I (as the class teacher) didn't even know had happened! So often child has a bump at dinner times, rests then carries on playing and seems to forget that it has happened until home time. Especially in Y6 at this time of year when pressure is off and they are doing the fun stuff which may have been pushed out by SATs etc. Hope I'm not talking out of turn but I thought you might like the other point of view.

    I do hope he is ok and that he enjoys his residential next week

    xx

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  • essexmum
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    The incident happened during the lunch break. He was playing the in the climbing frame and fell off. when he told an adult (persumaly a lunchtime controller/parent helper rather than a teacher) he was told to rest it for a while. Knowing my son he probably didn;t mention it again as he hates making a fuss although he's told me it was sore when writing during the afternoon. I think what I need to do is find out if his teacher was informed of the accident as if she wasn't made aware then how could she know to keep an eye on him right?

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  • Blackkat
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    I'm currently a year 1 teacher. Unfortunately the dinner ladies (mostly parent/grandparent helpers) don't always pass on information to class teachers (or don't always realise when a accident needs more attention). If informed I would try & keep & eye on children and do my best to inform parents (we have notes for any injuries involving the head) however sometimes there are so many things going on that I know I don't always remember to pass on everything. If I were you I'd mention it in school as maybe there is a commication problem that needs to be addressed. Hope you're son is ok for his trip

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    This is a tough one. I'm an ex deputy head of a primary school.

    My classic when i was on playground duty was to run to the child (as i was always worried of a serious accident on my watch....and i had a fair few), If they were rolling on the floor in supposed agony i would tell them to jump up and let me have a look at them. They often jumped up and had a miraculaous recovery. I would look at the injured part....and if there were no physical signs I'd suggest we see how they are in a short while...........mostly they made a full recovery. This would happen several times a day (But i carried a little note book with me so that i could drop a line down to the class teacher ....just in case)

    If you do miss an injury....especially from a child who doesn't make a fuss and is a generally quiet type.....you feel absolutely awful. On the other hand, you can understand how it can be missed if there are no clear physical signs.

    I do agree that his class teacher should have been informed....... and I do think that you should mention it to the school. if a dinner lady has failed to follow procedures (and every school has to have set procedures) the school needs to be aware.

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  • essexmum
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    Thanks for all your replies. I went into the school this morning and the incident wasn't mentioned to anyone. The head is going to find who was on duty yesterday and speak to them about procedures, his class teacher was mortified to hear that he's been suffering all afternoon (she's lovely actually so I had a gut feeling that she wasn't made aware of the situation). My son was quite excited about going into school with his sling on today, luckily for him his SATs are behind so there's not much writing to be done (he's hurt his right arm). They're also going re-juggle his activities next week so the more strenious stuff like rock-climbing and canoeing are going to be towards the end of the week so with any luck his arm will be much better then. Now all I need to do is remember to pick up his new inhylers from the Dr's tomorrow so he has brand new ones to take away with him!

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  • Saphira
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    It's always good to get an opportunity to refresh people's memories about procedures and dinner supervisors often have a high turn over rate so they might not have even had the procedures explained to them!

    Oh bless him suffering all afternoon. I'm glad they've managed to sort it out so he's not going to miss any activities. (I bet he would have liked it better if he had done it during SATs week ?)

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    It's always good to get an opportunity to refresh people's memories about procedures and dinner supervisors often have a high turn over rate so they might not have even had the procedures explained to them!

    Oh bless him suffering all afternoon. I'm glad they've managed to sort it out so he's not going to miss any activities. (I bet he would have liked it better if he had done it during SATs week ?)

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