If you have nothing nice to say and there really is no point to what you are saying...

Pick out something about him and say to him "oh my god I really hate it when men wear red ties/have a side parting/clean shave/roll their sleeves up, I think it just makes them look so ... STUPID" and turn on your heel, swish away, knowing that you lowered yourself to his level, but had fun doing it.

Oh what a tool! I know, I know, everyones entitled to their opinion, but sometimes just keep it to yourself or you sound like a miserable bubble bursting idiot! glad you laughed it off and didnt let him get you down :-D

I'm not a fan of sandals, those prices scare me (even at half price). but each to their own in all honesty, I can imagine it'll be a lovely and magical and just what you want so who cares what he thinks. enjoy your family AND your family some people tend to get on their soapbox about anything and everything.

I think he is just jealous you are going to Barbados and he isn't!

If I was honest, I probably agree with him re: all-inclusive hotels and not getting a "real experience", but you're clearly not doing the whole "shut yourself away" type of thing. Also, Sandals aren't my favourite hotel chain (some dubious policies re: gay people not so long ago), but that's my business, no-one elses.

However, could I imagine ever saying that in person to someone about their wedding plans (actually, WHATEVER their wedding plans are). NO.

Oh yeah, sorry, meant to say this as my final point. Yes, agreed!

I admire you for not giving him what for! I don't think I could have ?

Some people just enjoy putting a downer on things to make themselves feel better, I agree its the green eyed monster!

This really did make me chuckle

and I think my sarcasm may have had to bite back with a swift "Im pretty sure all inclusive doesn't involve handcuffing guests and locking doors" ?

Its part of life, having to work with people that you would never ever talk to in the real world. On a positive note some other guy has just bought fresh cream cakes into the office...YUMMMMM!

Feeling blessed today...knowing you are marrying the person of your dreams is so amazing.

Happy Friday hitchers Hope you ladies have a lovely weekend. xx

Haha, I know, but to be honest he is like this all the time, so there really is no point. Like a child you don't reward bad behaviour so I just ignore and get on with it. lol. I know that getting married abroad is not for everyone, or that the hotel I have picked is not for everyone, but I don't need it to be right for everyone, just for us and it is perfect.

hahah yea I must admit me and h2b chuckled at him basically saying they keep you prisoner of the hotel...hehe. Then when I said about us visiting family while we are there he said ' well why did you not just let them organise your wedding rather than letting the hotel do it'. I did not even justify that comment with a response.

All good fun.

He definitely just sounds like a goon!

Oh dear...what a Twunt!

Ahh, 'goon' and 'twunt', made me chuckle, such lovely insults, am filing those for future use

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SillyWrong...I love the 'turn on your heel, swish away', I may have to just do that now for no reason randomly in office. Lol x

Goon and twunt...made me laugh out loud. Classics! x

I had a woman at work comment on my venue - that place is really expensive, couldn't you do it cheaper? My response was, it's the only time I'm getting married, so I can have whatever I want. This response might work on your bloke at work, as he has been married more than once!

MUPPET!

Some people are so tactless.

What a tool bag. Next time just tell him you'll consider what he has said when your laid out on a nice sandy beach, with a cocktail in hand...NAAAT!!

Keep it moving bozo ...don't need your opinion.

Iv stayed there its so good, its on dover beach, We met some really nice locals. We went everywhere like sandy lane beach to swim with turtles and shopping in bridge town etc. Bet you cant wait?

Oooh sounds lovely MissFairytale. I am not sure if I will be brave enough to swim with turtles lol but I think once we are there we will try to give it a go. It looks so beautiful. x

What a Twatwaffle. None if his bloody business where you get married.