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grace85
Beginner February 2011

IKIBU but.........

grace85, 10 December, 2010 at 18:42 Posted on Planning 0 10

I know I'm being unreasonable and a bridzilla but I need to rant!! As some of u know I'm covering my back tattoo with my hair for the ceremony because I just don't feel right about them showing and today my BM(SIL) goes and gets a big f**k off tattoo on her shoulder!! There's no way of covering it with her hair as she has a bob so I'm going to have to find some shrugs or something for them both now to cover it. I know it's not my place to tell her what she can and can't do but if I was someones BM I'd at least let them know before hand not let them find out through facebook. Ggggggrrrrrrr!!!! Go ahead tell me I'm a bridzilla!!

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Latest activity by grace85, 11 December, 2010 at 09:20
  • grace85
    Beginner February 2011
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    Sorry for the lack of formatting I'm on my phone!!

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  • kj82
    Beginner December 2010
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    Hehe you ARE being bridezilla however i felt EXACTLY the same when my sister chopped all my little bms hair off to chin length after we had decided on long blonde curls!!! lol

    On the other hand, my cbm has a huge tat of a taz devil on her arm with her ex's name on it. Will be covering with a shrug but that's her choice Smiley smile

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  • Josiep00
    Beginner December 2010
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    Hehe, yep, just a little bit bridezilla.

    But I know what you mean. it is another thing for you to deal with know for you to have the day you want. But shrugs arn't that hard to get.

    Tis a shame not everyone else is as focused on our wedding as us - but we do have to remember everyone else has their lives to live ☹️ otherwise I'd have my bridesmaids over every week for a looong ass update on things!

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  • sarahb3426
    Beginner June 2012
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    Aww, i think if your BM knew how you felt regarding your tatoo showing on your wedding day, then she could of least let you know beforehand that she was getting it done!

    Think shawls are the way to go, and hopefully you can get them fairly cheap x

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  • grace85
    Beginner February 2011
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    But the back of their dresses are so pretty I don't want to cover them!! I was thinking of getting some fur wraps for the pictures so now it seems that I'm going to have too and they'll have to wear them throughout the ceremony too.

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  • BumbleBrat
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    I really don't think you're being unreasonable but I know most will after my fake tan rant regarding my tangoed BM lol.

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    A goat?! LOL!

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    Beginner August 2011
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    I agree with you. One of my BM's has gone and had a tat which covers her whole back and down one side of her arm. I was upset to begin with, probably because it will draw so much attention. However someone said to me would I have chosen her if she had had it before. My answer was of course I would she is one of my dearest friends, tat or no tat she will make perfect BM XX

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  • grace85
    Beginner February 2011
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    Yeah I still would have had her but probably wouldn't have picked strapless dresses!

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