God where to start.
I've posted on here previously about my H being made redundant and how we're fighting it on the grounds of unfair dismissal.
Well his company are playing hardball. They've sent through their decision against his appeal and upheld it. But in the appeal decision document and also supposed minutes of meetings they've taken, they've lied about time line of events and key points.
Notwithstanding that, they've made a compromise agreement offer to us. It's nowhere near what we want but it would give us a few months for him to try and fnd a job. But how do you fight a company that is lying? It's our word against theirs on the crucial point of the argument.
Do we settle now - if they let us, having said we're not happy with the current amount (but we do have a signed copy of the agreement), or do we fight on? Bearing in mind my salary doesn't cover all the bills, let alone buy us any food or other essentials.
My poor H is not coping at all well and I'm having to stay strong for him whilst all I want to do is cry. He's currently on his way to Brighton for a final interview for a job paying £15K less than his old one and with a commute of 90 mins in each direction and will cost over £300 a month in transport. And it's a step down.
On top of that, one of my best mates has texted me this morning to say her husband of 2.5 years and father of their almost 2 yr old twins, told her last night during her birthday meal that he's not sure he wants to be with her any more. Charming. I know she needs me but right now I haven't the energy for me and my H, let alone anyone else.
I just want to go to sleep for several days and wake up and find it's all sorted. That's not too much to ask is it?