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ebony_rose
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I'm planning my 4th wedding... with flashes

ebony_rose, 9 August, 2012 at 12:42 Posted on Planning 0 25

Only this time, it's not for me.

I've been on Hitched since 2004, since then i've had 2 failed engagements, and I finally got married last Halloween. (3rd time unlucky)

Now, after over 20 years of being divorced, my Mum and Dad are getting married again. For some reason, they thought i'd be great at planning their wedding ? It's very weird, but lovely to have my parents back together.

I thought my Mum would want me to just offer advice, but no, she's left it all up to me. SO exciting. I wasn't overly interested in planning my own wedding (just wanted a quick register office do, no fuss, no reception), but I am really excited about planning my parents wedding.

They're getting married 18th May next year. So far, we have my Mums dress. I saw it on a girly shopping trip with my Mum, we weren't even on the lookout for a dress. As it's her 3rd wedding, she didn't want a traditional dress (was so relieved, if any of you have seen my wedding pics, you'd know I don't "do" traditional), she thought it was perfect, and snapped it up.

here it is. She's gone from a size 24 to a 12, and she looks stunning in it. Her happiness and confidence really shows. (wow, that's majorly fluffy for me)


Invites have been ordered, i'm adding black stick on diamante gems to give them something "extra", and BM dresses have been decided on. The white for the BMs, and the black for CBM (which is me ?)



My Mum also wants me to make their cake, and her bouquet. I've decided to make fabric flower and button bouquets, which i've started


My ex fiance is a photographer, and he's offered to do the photos for free. Luckily, we still get on really well, and my eldest son (who is giving my Mum away) will be chuffed to have his Dad there, i'm sure.

They've opted for a register office ceremony, and a reception at a local hall as it's close to all of our family and friends. As I know the venue well, it'll be easy to work out how to decorate it, which helps a lot.

And just as i was about to post, the invites turned up... ?

25 replies

Latest activity by *Nursey*, 11 August, 2012 at 12:32
  • Kayels
    Beginner May 2013
    Kayels ·
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    Awwww bless... this is a lovely post!!! Smiley smile made me feel happy andi dont even know your mom!! lol... her dress and the BM dresses are gorgeous! i love black and white themes! xx xx

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  • Ali_G
    Beginner October 2012
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    All lovely! Do we get a flash of the invites too?

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  • FaeBelle13
    Beginner April 2013
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    Ooooh this wedding looks like it will be so much fun. Lovely story of your mum and dad too!

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  • ebony_rose
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    Yep,will pop some gems on one, then take a pic...

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  • ebony_rose
    Genius
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    Here we go


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  • BertB
    Beginner July 2013
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    What a lovely story ?

    All looks great so far. I love black for weddings. Your mums dress is gorgeous, well done!

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  • C
    Beginner September 2013
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    Aw, lovely! Do you have the BM dresses yet? They're SO CHEAP! I bought a 50s style dress from Vivien of Holloway and it was WAAAAAY more than this! I have dress envy ?

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  • ebony_rose
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    Haven't bought them yet, no.

    My H bought me a VoH dress for my wedding, but then I changed my mind, and bought one off ebay with polka dots on instead.

    They're cheaper, but there's a massive difference in the quality. VoH dresses are far better quality.

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  • Ali_G
    Beginner October 2012
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    The invites are lovely. Great work! Smiley laugh

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  • ebony_rose
    Genius
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    ? ladies.

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    Beginner August 2013
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    What a lovely post, wishing all of you the very best

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    I lurve those dresses! nice work ?

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  • S
    Beginner July 2013
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    Love it, dresses are gorgeous! what fun x

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  • Tizzie
    Beginner June 2012
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    This is so nice that after all this time they are gettin married again. I love your mums dress and the bridesmaids but I really really love yours. You must be very crafty too the flower looks lovely.

    Hope you'll do a report for your mum!!

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  • B
    Beginner December 2012
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    Wow, congratulations for your planing so many weddings, and congratulations to your mum for her wedding, your mum and dady must be very happy after so many years. I think the dress you have chosen for you mother is very suitable and very elegent, she must love it very much. To have a happy life for an old lady is very Cherished, I feel happy for your mother.

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  • (Claire)
    Beginner July 2011
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    ER such lovely news. I recall a few months back you posted on OT that your Dad had moved back in and they seemed to be getting on well, I remember thinking back then I do hope they get back together hehe!! You must be thrilled they've asked you to organise it all! Keep us all posted with your progress!

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  • *gnashers*
    Beginner October 2013
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    All I have to say ER, is you are going to look HOT in this

    Everything else looks gawjus too

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  • ebony_rose
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    Ooh, feel free to flash. My wedding dress was a similar design, and I still have my petticoat, so that will save some money.

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  • ebony_rose
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    Ah, they look lovely. They look fab as BM dresses

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  • ebony_rose
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    ? thank you.

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  • ebony_rose
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    I am chuffed they asked me to arrange things. My Mum has done so much for me, it's lovely being able to do something for her, and my Dad.

    It's bringing out my fluffy side. Didn't think I had one. (don't worry, i'll keep it to WP) ?

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  • stephanieeff
    Beginner July 2014
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    I love black and white for weddings, It's so elegant, but works so well for laid back weddings too. Everything looks so great and your mums dress is stunning, I want it lol!

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  • *Nursey*
    Beginner May 2012
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    Looks great, ER!

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