Im so grumpy and annoyed

Think I would be ranting too Shoegal! Very annoying this close to the wedding, presuming he had plenty of notice. A sorry would have been the least you expected, but some people don't seem to realise how much planning is involved.

Rant away my dear! If you can't have a good ol' rant on hitched where can you hey?!

I'm always staggered by the bad behaviour of some married people at others' weddings. They're married, they've had a wedding so presumably they understand the cost and the stress that goes into organising such an event.

Three years ago, I was invited with h2b to his cousin's wedding. We'd originally decided not to take my sons but at the last minute my babysitter for my youngest son pulled out (eldest was going to his dad's for the weekend) so we ended up calling the bride and groom to ask at the 11th hour if we could bring him. They were fine but it ruffled h2b's aunt's feathers a lot, which at the time I thought was really unreasonable of her, but now I'm planning my own wedding and I see what's going into it, I'd never do something like that again!

Don't worry, you will get everything done - make a list and work out what you're going to do on which day.

Could you bump another couple up to the full day - I think there's enough time. Hubby's uncle and partner didn't turn up on the day and have never apologised or got in contact!

That is just so rude and completely selfish!!!!! Grrrrrrr!

I know the feeling!

mil2b rang Tuesday night saying bil2b's girlfriend could no longer make it and the Bestman does not know whether his eldest will bother turning up! has annoyed me a fair bit! it doesn't sound like much but favours go to waste, names are wrong on the table plan, and could have saved £25 per person!

I still have to pack mine and H2B's and the kids cases and make sure we have everything together for the Hotel on Friday. I am about to go and set up the ironing board in the living room and crack on! a Bride to Be's work is just never done lol!

On the plus side just been and had my roots and eyebrows done and a bit of a giggle in the salon!

xxx

Thanks all. Just feeling really fed up with it all.

Roll on next Sunday!

x

It is absolutely lovely when it's over shoey...it's like when you were at school and your exams finished!

I know exactly how you feel. I am so snappy at the moment! I can't wait to have my life back too. I'm looking forward to my honeymoon where I can enjoy the silence that means I'm not having my life interferred with by people telling me 'got to do this and got to have this because if you don't it will be rubbish!' I'm fed up of people demanding to know every little detail and then when you tell them and its not what they want to hear, then having them ignore you and ask you again a few days later!

That's very rude of the brother and his wife! I too have found that people seem to completely lack manners. I think I just want to go and live in a dark cupboard with OH when all this is over. I'm sick of bad manners and ungratefulness!

That's my rant over. Sorry for taking over your post!

Good luck on your day!!!